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trentmars

29 / M / straight / Single

Cincinnati, Ohio

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Ethnicity
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am introspective, intense, and awesome.

My Self-Summary

I, like nearly every other guy on here, would consider myself intelligent, funny, passionate, and loyal. I don't let the little things bother me. That being said, when I am with someone I truly care for I can be very intense. Myers-Briggs would classify me as INFP. I laugh at myself several times a day and can be very random. I am open-minded and non-judgmental. I am very focused on where I am going in life but have the most fun when I am distracted. I am a very empathetic person and value this above all other qualities in others. I love listening to other people's stories and perspectives. I am that guy who would be at a bar, and maybe it’s the therapist in me, that ends up listening to the “weird guy’s” problems regarding his estranged son. I'm weird. I still have not determined if I actually like or hate cool ranch doritos (I still eat them), I can't sleep when I'm hot or when it is silent, I exercise often, I love to ski, and I am a huge football (Eagles) and baseball (Yankees/Phillies) fan. I loathe Cowboys fans but have this perverse desire to date a Red Sox fan. I like stupid humor (think Chris Farley) and satire. I smile often and am respectful.

What I’m doing with my life

I just recently moved to Cincinnati to pursue a PhD in school psychology. I have worked as an adolescent addictions therapist and a family therapist. I wholeheartedly believe in what I do and feel that success is measured by what you do for others.

I’m really good at

Listening. Conversing. Listing what I'm really good at. Making people laugh. Kissing. Sleeping. Affection.

The first things people usually notice about me

On a shallow note...my arms and shoulders. Also, the fact that I am either very engaging (when I want to be) or very shy...no middle ground here

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Music: Radiohead, A Perfect Circle, Tool, Muse, Stone Temple Pilots, Deftones, NIN, Pink Floyd, Ok Computer (my favorite album), Maynard (my favorite lead singer), and Alternative/Rock (my favorite genre)

Movies: Braveheart, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Gladiator, Requiem for a Dream, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, The Blair Witch Project (Really!), Legend, and The Program.

Books (most recent...the majority of my time is spent reading journal articles and textbooks): Freakonomics, Mortal Coils, The Lucifer Effect, The Lovely Bones, Disturbing Class, Black Dagger Brotherhood Series, One Second After, Evil Genes, and I Know This Much is True

Food: I eat healthy and exercise all week just so that I can eat out all weekend...Italian, PIZZA, any kind of meat, sushi, chinese, thai, and cheesy bread (my specialty)

The six things I could never do without

Water
Food
Oxygen
My friends and family.
Hot showers.
A comfy bed.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I am a budding radical behaviorist but...I wish I could fly and wonder if anyone ever has...I realize that the idea of a "heaven", per se, is illogical...but I construct mine daily...I wonder why people are the way they are (aside from being conditioned that way of course!)...I try and imagine what it would be like to be floating about in the great red spot on jupiter...I imagine what my life would be like with strangers I pass in the street...

On a typical Friday night I am

Studying
Drinking wine (pinot noir is my favorite) and reading some cheesy fiction
or
Out for drinks and conversation.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Hmmmm...I have 3 tiers of boxers...
1) Front line starters - Newer, great condition, and the elastic is still tight. Typically are worn when going out or to class/work.
2) The vets - Worn, ok condition, faded, loose elastic. Typically work when the front line starters are dirty.
3) The originals - Very worn, sometimes see thru, several holes, leave nothing to the imagination. Typically work as a last resort, however, they serve a particular function. They embarrass me into doing my laundry.

You should message me if

You like what you read, are smart but not pretentious, are attrative but not conceited, and are vivacious but not nebulous, you are far from normal, you look better in glasses, are artistic, are complicated, and you want to get lost...