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tresfils

47 / M / straight / Single

Jacksonville, Florida

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
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Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Kids
Has children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am animated, thoughtful, and too rational :-).

My Self-Summary

Oh my gosh- a self summary. I'll work on this a bit more, but for right now: humanist (people before things), free thinker, intellectually curious, self accountable, emotionally and financially secure, physically active, athletically competitive, personally non-competitive, non judgmental... (probably more, check back later :-)

.... (one week) ....

It's later! A bit more: a single Dad with elementary/middle school kids, no drama with the Mama- both are great parents, a nearly even split on custody, I shoot for the stars and hope to reach the moon, executive working in technology, if you watch TV I get some of your money, joyful around children, read and write quite a bit, exercise a bit too much, fiscally conservative, socially liberal. Time for another break (check back in another week or two)

What I’m doing with my life

Living it as much and as well as I can. The present is just that- a "present". Live today fully, knowing that yesterday's mistakes are the foundations of tomorrow's lessons. I want to make sure that when I reach the final destination I will be happy to have made the journey and pleased with the outcome !-)

I’m really good at

math? spelling? laffing??

The first things people usually notice about me

Some say eyes... some say smile... none say "Brad Pitt-like good looks".
Honestly, most see me as innocuous upon first meetings, but soon develop either a love/hate opinion shortly thereafter.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

In entertainment- COMEDY. Have to laugh on a daily basis. The other stuff, a quick snapshot sampling:
Books on my desk right now:
- Then Why Do I Have Toenails?
- Embedded Linux Primer (I _almost_ was an editor- a close brush with GREATNESS!)
- Beginning GIMP
Movies in my DVD player right now:
- The Incredibles (I kinda' relate to this)
- Sponge Bob Season ???
- An empty slot
.... OK, so I have kids
Music in my player right now:
- Leaving Las Vegas (Katy Perry)
- You Get What You Give (New Radicals)
- Make It Mine (Jason Mraz)
Food in my refrigerator right now:
- Pumpkin pie. I _really_ like pumpkin pie!
- Tofu & soy milk. Keeps me in touch with my feminine side.
- All natural crunchy peanut butter

The six things I could never do without

Oxygen
Water
Food
Shelter
Clothing (only if cold)
Other people
Humor (oops, that was 7)
... in that order. I told you I was too rational !-)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

serious stuff... and silly stuff... and fun stuff... and stuff stuff.
Come to "think about it"... I "think about it" a lot ;-) ;-) ;-)

On a typical Friday night I am

50/50 shot- either time & fun with my kids -or- ...well, actually it has been laundry as of late. Now you know why I am here! But you should see my whites!!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I wear a size 10 1/2 shoe. Both feet.

You should message me if

You have an interest.
Or, much, much, much less likely- you find my photos irresistible (HA! HA! HA!)
Or, you enjoyed the profile. Replying to say "that was fun" is OK even if our match is 2%.
But please do not reply if our enemy rank is 90% or more. Nor should you lookup my home address, either.