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51 F Decatur, GA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 44–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:24pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English, French (Poorly), Hebrew (Okay), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
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A world traveler (UK, Peru, Bolivia, Costa Rica, Chile, South Africa, Israel, Belgium, Germany, Austria, France, Ecuador, Galápagos Islands, Germany, Australia, Grand Cayman, Bahamas, Canada, Mexico, Brasil, Greece)
An artist
A dancer (since age 4)
A mother
A bit of a nerd

30 things about me:
1. I like all fruits except pears.
2. I won three Aggregate trophies and many metals for Scottish Highland Dancing during high school. I can still fit into my kilt.
3. In elementary, middle school and high school, I was always the shortest kid in the class.
4. I started dancing at age four, and haven't stopped yet.
5. I have been on TV 10 times and in one movie.
6. In Austria, I was almost kidnapped by a Krampas.
7. I made a mother elephant angry when I drove too close to her baby in Addo Elephant Park, South Africa. She threatened to attack the car. I backed up.
8. Being a Mom is better than I expected.
9. Sleeping children are beautiful...and quiet.
10. In college, my dorm room had a view of the ocean and I fell asleep to the sound of the waves every night.
11. I love vintage musicals. I could watch Fred Astaire, Gene Kelly , Leslie Caron, Cyd Charisse, Donald O'Connor (and more) dance all day.
12. Laughter IS the best medicine.
13. My children are fluent in French, but I will probably never learn to speak it. I hope I can learn to understand it better. Recently, my daughter said to me: "Mom, don't worry, I'm going to speak to my sister in French." I'm worried.
14. I am a visual learner. I have a photographic memory.
15. Creativity is a valuable asset.
16. I stood on the equator in Ecuador; one foot on either side.
17. In high school, I saw the original play "The Rocky Horror Show" at the Roxy Theatre on Sunset in LA. Tim Curry played the lead role.
18. I became an audiologist by accident. I switched my major from Pre-med to Speech and Hearing Science so I could move away from home for college. I transferred from UCLA to UCSB. After my first S&H class, I loved it, so kept the major permanently.
19. I experienced severe culture shock when I went to Graduate School in Knoxville Tennessee. They thought I was a hippy freak from California. I had waist length hair and hairy legs. Knoxville was the mecca for preppy pink and green clothed co-eds. I stuck out like a sore thumb.
20. My second year of grad school I met a guy from California who introduced me to contra dance (Thanks, David!) . I fit in there.
21. A few years ago, I shocked my parents by thanking them for how they raised me and told them they were right.
22. I had my 15 minutes of fame when I was featured on a CNN special on Sleep hosted by Sanjay Gupta. They wanted a sleep disturbed working mother.
23. My children, on the other hand, sleep like the dead.
24. I cut 10" of my hair to donate for wigs for woman with cancer. This is my third time.
25. I have worked on the original FDA clinical for all three cochlear implant companies. And I am one of the few audiologist left who worked with the 3M House single channel device. Obviously, I've been in the field too long.
26. Being a parent humbled me.
27. I went fishing for Piranha in the Pantinal, Brazil. We ate them for dinner. They didn't taste like chicken.
28. I spent three days in the Amazon rainforest learning about the flora and fauna of the region; leaf cutter ants, howler monkeys, fluorescent colored butterflies.
29. I am shy.
30. I'm still trying to find the answers to life's persistent questions...
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to fit my creative life into my life as a single, working Mom.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thrift shopping
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair (many people have asked me where I get my hair color. My answer: "my Mom and Dad")
My unusual name
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Beatles, Beach Boys, Elvis, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Glenn Miller, David Wilcox, Tracy Chapman, Simon and Garfunkel, Cat Stevens, Cheryl Wheeler, John McCutcheon, Nightnoise, Wild Asparagus, Led Zeppelin, Deep Purple, Pink Floyd, Crosby, Stills, Nash (and Young), Bela Fleck, Chet Atkins, Roches, David Wilcox, Ingrid Michealson, New Pornographers, Bare Naked Ladies, Chenille Sisters, Roches, Four Bitchin Babes, Guess Who, Who, Lovin Spoonful, Peter and Gordon, Gordan Lightfoot, Claudia Schmidt ....Just to name a few.

I am a closet audiophile. I used to love to go to high end stereo stores and freak out the sales guys with my knowledge. I had an amazing stereo system before it was stolen.

Books: Too many to list. I like rereading young adult novels I read as a kid.

Food: I have been a vegetarian since high school. I like ethnic food (Thai, Indian, Ethiopian, Japanese, South American), especially food that I wouldn't have the expertise or time to cook myself. Love to cook and bake, though I don't have much time these days. I like to grill (veggies and fruit).

Films: Like indie, foreign (yes, even with subtitles), musicals, classics, animation, etc.

I am an avid NPR listener: ATC, Morning Edition, Wait, Wait Don't Tell Me, Prairie Home Companion, Car Talk, This American life, Says You. I love listening to excerpts from Story Corps. Sometimes it makes me cry.

I enjoy the theatre. I had season passes to Broadway Series when I was younger and had more time and disposable income.

Humor is very important to me. Great humor requires intelligence.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My children
Dance (contra, swing, waltz, zydeco)
Good spelling and grammar
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Creative ideas
Ways to embarrass my children. If I haven't accomplished this at least a few times before they turn 18, I'm haven't done my job.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a contra, blues or swing dance, with my kids on alternate weekends, spending time with friends, seeing a movie, chasing rainbows, or riding the horns of a dilemma (and not falling off)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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One of the reasons I became a Pediatric Audiologist: I get to play with toys.
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