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29 Bethesda, MD Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 2
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a loyal friend and family member, and I don't take anything for granted. I'm a very affectionate person, optimistic, and have a lust for life. I'm looking for someone similar who is emotionally stable, intelligent, and kind.

I'd like to meet a woman to enjoy DC with, get to know in a dating context, and hopefully eventually build a relationship with.

I would like to be with someone with quite a few different interests than mine. Although our interests DO NOT have to match at all, but it would be nice if you shared at least one of the following:

a true love of music,
an affinity for writing and/or reading (bonus points if you blog, were an English major, or work in a writing, editing, or journalistic job!),
want to check out a play or a comedy show-- ever been to DC Improv? Great comics roll in and your can go for 10 or 15 bucks,
have the willingness to go to a Caps or Nats game,
an interest in psychology or the mental health field,
a healthy appetite to see new and classic movies,
a background that enables you to speak Spanish (poorly, okay, or fluently),
a taste for coffee,
or a desire to visit new places around DC.

I really enjoy going to the movies (especially thrillers, film noir, indie, blockbuster dramas, and comedies) I would LOVE to get to more shows/concerts, even of local or unheard of bands!

I'd be down to check out some local museums. The Air and Space museum branch out in Northern VA where they have the Concorde and I think a space shuttle is one I've been meaning to visit for a while... Plus everything I mentioned above and any activities based around those interests.

On the other hand, besides my own pet interests, I'm really up for anything and excited about trying new things. So if you have a creative date idea, try me! I'll probably be down.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working towards my goals and enjoying it!

So where am I with my life? I am currently seeking employment in full-time writing jobs, such as positions at non-profits, trade associations, and the like. I'm also interviewing for paralegal jobs (which I did in New York for 4 years before I moved back to DC recently to recover from a health condition). What I'd really like would be to become a staff writer or combination PR/grant-writer/staff writer. It's not something I've done before but I've always been an exceptional writer and it's what I love to do.

However I don't think people are merely defined by the "what do you do" cocktail question or even the basic nature of their job and the time it occupies in their life. I enjoy many things, including reading in Spanish and in English, being a huge music nerd and constantly discovering unfamiliar artists and building mega playlists on Spotify, working out, playing Catch Phrase or Cards Against Humanity at parties, following baseball and hockey, and going out around town--whether it's to a new restaurant or a pool hall. There are many things I aspire to in my life, and being a staff writer at some wonky place forever is not one of them--although it should be a perfect step for now!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making silly jokes, eating hamburgers, writing almost anything, speaking and reading Spanish (my college major), learning new things
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think it might be that I listen closely to what they have to say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music I've Enjoyed Recently:

Wilson Pickett, A Tribe Called Quest, Weezer's Green album (growing on me with age), Outkast's first album, Band of Skulls, T. Rex, Arctic Monkeys, Beethoven's 9th Symphony :-)

Some Long-Time Favorites:

Led Zeppelin, The Black Keys, Urge Overkill, Iron Maiden, My Morning Jacket, The Who, Jesus and Mary Chain, the Rolling Stones, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, the Beatles, Bob Dylan, The Dictators, Arcade Fire, Big Star, Joan Jett, The Raveonettes, Social Distortion, Weezer, Warren Zevon, Mazzy Star, Smashing Pumpkins, Eagles of Death Metal, Ladyhawke, the Kinks, Otis Redding, Soda Stereo, Buddy Guy, Mott the Hoople, Lou Reed, the Clash, the Cars, Marah, James Brown, the Temptations, Sam & Dave, Ginblossoms, ZZ Top, Janis Joplin, Kool Keith, Queen, Tom Petty, Warren G, N.W.A., Fitz and the Tantrums

Movies: Love the Hard Way, American Psycho, Coming to America, Trading Places, Dial M for Murder

Books: Talk Talk by T.S. Boyle as well as the huge anthology of his short stories, A Confederacy of Dunces, The Moviegoer, The Last Policeman and Countdown City, the Matthew Scudder detective series, the Spenser mystery/detective series

Shows: Californication, True Detective, Louie, Freaks and Geeks, Shameless

Food: Italian, Argentine asado (grilled meat, yum!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
MUSIC and my Spotify account--
Nietzsche said "Without music, life would be a mistake." I agree, LAUGHTER,
food (duh),
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. whether the refrigerator light goes out when you shut the door

2. The Meaning of Life
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home knitting myself a pair of socks
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I had a beard for years but I shaved it and it feels good. Sorry, beard fetishists...


Brought it back before the holidays and looks like it's here to stay. :)

Also, realized the beard isn't really private 'cause it's on your FACE, so I will share one other thing:

I have a Prince Albert!

(I'm kidding.)

Seriously, if you'd like to learn something actually true about me that is very personal, meet me in person. I'll open up quickly if I'm comfortable with you.
You should message me if
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A. You like what you read (or skimmed)

B. you might like to meet for a coffee or drink

C. you think we have ANYTHING IN COMMON to talk about.

D. You know who Kool Keith is, or have a theory!