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38 M Shanghai, China

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  • Ages 25–42
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My Details

Last Online
Sep 17
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
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Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Did you ever look at yourself in the mirror, and look into your own eyes, and feel that something is not right with the way we are told the world works? I'm not talking about concepts like the manipulated economy, wars, famine, bills, jobs, schooling and all that crap. I had this experience about 18 years ago, and it's fueled quite a unique and illuminating ride so far with no signs of stopping anytime soon.
What I’m doing with my life
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To pay the bills, I work in the software R&D department of one the largest sheetmetal machinery companies in the world. I get to work out of my house, and also travel around the country and world (Shanghai and Japan). I also have played drums since the 4th grade and played ice hockey since age 7. I still love doing both activities.
I have somewhat of an obsession examining the true nature of reality, and have broken free from the lies and programming we grew up being forcefed. The world is a much different place from this perspective. I read often and love to expand my horizons. Some things I like to research are ancient suppressed knowledge and history, harmonic resonance, the holographic nature of reality, sacred geometry, entheogens, hollow earth theories, etc.
I’m really good at
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Ice Hockey, Drums ('' to hear some of the music I've made with various bands).
also Computers....I get referred to as "the wizard" by some close friends.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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some books: by David Icke, Philip K. Dick books (Ubik, Valis, etc.), Brave New World, Hunter S. Thompson's books, the Secret Life of Water (Masaru Emoto), Life and Teachings of the Masters of the Far East (Baird T. Spalding), The Holographic Universe (Michael Talbot), Back From The Void (Zoe Seven), Wizard of the Upper Amazon: The Story of Manuel Cordova-Rios (F. Bruce Lamb), Illusions (Richard Bach), Flower of Life vol I and II (Drunvalo Melchizedek), Emerald Tablets of Thoth, the Strange Life of Nikola Tesla

some movies: V for Vendetta, Cloud Atlas, Waking Life, Big Lebowski, Enemy at the Gates, Mirror Mask, the Forgotten, A Scanner Darkly, They Live, Motorcycle Diaries, the Matrix, Borat, Raising Arizona, Altered States, Immortal Beloved, Superman 2, Devil's Rejects, LOTR trilogy, Empire Strikes Back, Indiana Jones trilogy, Oh Brother Where Art Thou?, Communion, the Fisher King, Brasil, Equilibrium, TAKEN (mini-series), Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Ghost World, The 13th Floor, Pi, America: Freedom To Fascism, The Fountain, The Assassination of Richard Nixon, Dark City, The God Who Wasn't There

some music: 40 Below Summer, Messer Chups, Weezer, the Beatles, Peeping Tom, Franz Ferdinand, Faith No More, Tomahawk, Mr. Bungle, Dredg, Relative Ash, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Vision of Disorder, Downset, Machine Head, Glassjaw, Crowbar, System of a Down, One King Down, Deftones, Norah Jones, Nothingface, No Doubt, hed(pe), Pro-Pain, Earth Crisis, Modest Mouse, Secret Chiefs 3, John Lennon, Testament, Ozomatli, Stuck Mojo, Gorillaz, Sepultura, Kaiser Chiefs, Will Haven, Head Automatica, Gene Krupa, Benny Goodman, Ondrej Havelka & the Melody Makers, James Brown, Dengue Fever, Hillbilly Moon Explosion, Screamin Jay Hawkins, Django Reinhardt, Mohammed Rafi, Girl in a Coma, Fletcher Henderson, and lots more

shows: NHL Hockey, Seinfeld, Married With Children, Simpsons, Futurama, South Park, Tom & Jerry, Looney Tunes, the Three Stooges, the Twilight Zone (original), Ant & the Aardvark, House Hunters International, Breaking Bad, Bill Hicks, Upright Citizens Brigade!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This kind of stuff below (various quotes) and how many other people also think like me...I know there are some and growing...but most people look at you like a deer in the headlights if you mention anything like this.

some various quotes:

You adjust your perceptions
to a certain frequency,
and call what you see "this world."
You can tune yourself to other frequencies
whenever you wish.

The first step
in de-hypnotizing yourself
is to realize
that you've been hypnotized in the first place.

One challenge of your adventure on earth
is to rise above dead systems:
wars, religions, nations, destructions-
to refuse to be a part of them,
and express instead,
the highest self
you know how to be.

Any principle that requires admiration isn't real.
Any God who requires worship doesn't exist.

Just look at us. Everything is backwards; everything is upside down. Doctors destroy health, lawyers destroy justice, universities destroy knowledge, governments destroy freedom, the major media destroy information and religions destroy spirituality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
glad that the weekend is here. Varies a lot...could be playing ice hockey, playing a show with my band (if I'm in one at the time), watching a documentary, going out to see a live band, meditating.
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you've read this far.