Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


43 Philadelphia, PA Man


Similar users

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:57pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a nerd. And yes, we come in brown. ;)

I am NOT a "douchebag" who is only looking for a one -night stand or casual sex. I am looking for someone smart and cute to spend my free time with.

And no, I am not "comfortable in my own skin." I'm nervous, neurotic, clumsy, awkward and shy. Think Woody Allen with a deep tan and a penchant for poetic profanity, sans the pedophilia (yeah, say that three times fast).

A friend told me once that he had read somewhere that only 2% of the world's population displays what can be considered as "true passion." I am the 2%.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing and directing films that win multiple awards but make very little money. Gotta fix that at some point. And teaching at a local art college to pay the bills.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking (from recipes)
Making films
Winning film festival awards
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Baby face
Cool frames (re: eyeglasses)
Contagious laugh

Jenna: We all have our roles in college. I'm the hot blonde.
Tracy: And I'm the nerd who takes off his glasses and everyone realizes he's handsome.
-30 Rock (Season 5, Episode 8)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything approximating Southern Gothic...including William Faulkner, Flannery O'Connor, Cormac McCarthy, and Toni Morrison. Throw in anything Junot Diaz, Don DeLillo and Richard Yates. Still haven't gotten around to Franzen or Lethem, yet. Been meaning to fix that.

Most films directed by Wong Kar-Wai, Takeshi Kitano, François Truffaut, Terrance Malick, P.T. Anderson, Spike Jonze and Shohei Imamura. Anything Charlie Kaufman (I absolutely love ETERNAL SUNSHINE OF THE SPOTLESS MIND). My all time favorite film, however, is CITY OF GOD.

True Detective, The Wire, Boardwalk Empire, House of Cards, House of Lies, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Community, Parks & Rec...and Girls (yep, I admit it). And anything cooking related or food & travel related...basically everything on the Food Network.

Anything and everything.

Everything except country and R&B. I'm kind of obsessed with Yppah, Bonobo, Metronomy, and STRFKR at the moment. Can't stop listening to them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good Food
Sex (have to admit it)
Making movies
Kitchen gear
(Yeah, that's seven! What?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My first feature film.

How to break into TV directing.

Story themes: broken people, self-destructive tendencies, alcohol dependency, drug addiction, cycles of violence, psychological dysfunction, existential legacies, the fragility of human love...mad love...

...Boston Terriers...French Bulldogs...

...Korean BBQ...and a good bowl of Hakata style ramen.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Since I don't know that many people here, and the few friends that are in the area are super busy industry types, I'm usually working on lesson plans or personal film projects. I know: BORING! That's why I'm here on OKC.

Sometimes I grab drinks with my friends, though. It seems just as hard to catch up with people here as it is in New York.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Let me think...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think you might like chocolate but hate stereotypes.

If you're into smart, arty guys that aren't millionaires...yet. ;)