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trillian_1138

25 / F / gay / Single

Chicago, Illinois

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am creative, passionate, and inquisitive.

My Self-Summary

A Chicago girl my whole life, I'm one of those rare people whose a theatre geek and a computer geek. I'm ready to go and see the latest storefront show that a friend's in, debate whether the main character was an ass or just misunderstood, then go home and play some Smash Bros while debating Ubuntu versus OSX. In college, I had people in the theatre department going, "Wait, how can you stand those tech people?" and people in CS going, "Wait, how can you stand those theatre people?" Go figure...

Full disclosure, I'm trans. (Yes, asking if I'm "really" a woman, "actually" a man, or any variant thereof will get you in trouble.) That's definitely a part of my identity, and I'm open about it, but it's not the only part. For example, I'd also call myself a feminist, queer, an artist, and very much in still in the process of finding myself.

I also also hate writing self-summaries, but can't decide if that's really worth mentioning...

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a lucky girl - I'm working full-time in the arts, and still have the time/energy to take on my own theatre projects. I also teach part-time. And trying to figure out, y'know, what I'm doing with the rest of my life...

Right now, I'm writing a solo performance, stemming from self-narrative writing, that I'll be performing this December. It's super-exciting, super-terrifying, and the first thing I've self-produced (let alone been the sole performer in).

Also, as I said in my self-summary, I'm trans, and still transitioning; figuring out identity. If you're really dying to know more than that, you're gonna have to convince me you're worth telling.

I’m really good at

Playing piano
Fixing computers
Writing (personal narrative, mostly)
Making earrings
Circus! (Really. I know enough to show off to people who don't know anything, but not enough to hold my own with people who do...)
Playing Risk (And Settlers of Catan, and Taboo, and Smash Bros, and Mario Kart, and...)

The first things people usually notice about me

I have noooo idea! You'll have to tell me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

BOOKS: East of Eden, Lord of the Rings, Heinlein (I know, I'm sorry...), Jeanette Winterson, Terry Pratchett, Douglas Adams (of course), Studs Terkel, Neil Gaiman, Time Traveler's Wife, the 'Fables' series of graphic novels, Whipping Girl, S/he, The Giving Tree, Little Women

TV/MOVIES: Dr Horrible], Castle, Glee, Stargate, Battlestar Galactica, Where the Wild Things Are, Back to the Future, Up, But I'm a Cheerleader, Empire Records, Primer, Run Lola Run, Star Wars (the ORIGINAL trilogy, thankyouverymuch), Monty Python, Hook

MUSIC: Dar Williams, The Eagles, Queen, Moxy Fruvous, They Might Be Giants, musicals

FOOD: Pizza! (Deep dish AND NY-style)

The six things I could never do without

Good books
Email
Playing piano (heck, I'll say artistic expression in general)
Biking
Laughing
Learning new things

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Theatre
Gender theory and politics
Self-expression
Technology and toys
Legos

On a typical Friday night I am

Seeing theatre - too many friends in the arts means there's always some show to see!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I've never been tied up...but I'd like to be.

You should message me if

You can hold your own just as easily in a debate about politics as a debate about the most delicious type of candy or favorite sexual position