Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Quite possibly the least needy person you will ever meet.
Polyamorous. Impulsive. Excitable. Very gullible.
Kind but not nice.
Extrovert who thinks he's an introvert, or vice versa.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a very active person. I lift weights, I run, I hike, I climb, I
snowboard. I'm a distance runner; I've run marathons and I want to
do an ultramarathon next year. Something about endurance sports
calls to me.
I'm greedy. I want to see and do and taste and touch everything the
world has to offer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a good listener, I'm good at being stubborn. I'm good at
getting people to open up to me.
I'm a good runner.
I'm good at snowboarding. I'm good at trying new things, especially
things that scare me.
I'm a pretty good cook.
I'm good at pushing myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a half-asian mix. That used to be a scarlet letter, but now we
seem to be... trendy? Rock on.
I'm fit and lean. I have dimples when I smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Arrested Development, Californication, Archer, Venture
Recently: For Whom The Bell Tolls, Jitterbug Perfume, Still Life
With Woodpecker, Stardust, a handful of Bukowski works, House of
Holes, Starship Troopers, Time Enough for Love, House of Leaves, So
Long and Thanks for All the Fish
I love southern Italian food; my grandparents were from Sicily and
Calabria. Nothing fancy, but I have a lot of memories attached to
the smell of cutlets frying in olive oil and overripe tomatoes
cooking down on a sunny August afternoon.
Everyone has eclectic taste in music, so I feel dumb saying that.
Currently I've been really into Twenty One Pilots, Portugal The
Man, City and Colour, Bitter Ruin, Tim Minchin. My absolute
favorite thing to see live is jazz. Jazz lives.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This section always feels like I'm either being dramatic or copping
out. Yeah, I know that saying I couldn't do without food isn't a
huge revelation, but it seems insulting to those without food to
imply I couldn't live without the internet.
1. The internet.
2. Wide open spaces.
3. Human contact.
4. Places without human contact.
6. Occasional periods of quiet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Running, snowboarding, work, things I want to make. Members of the
opposite sex. When I'll work up the guts to finish my skydiving
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In the winter, I'm probably either snowboarding under the stars or
wishing I was.
In the rest of the year I'm probably at a bar with friends or
stuffing my fat face with homecooked food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am extraordinarily gullible.
I have a thing for redheads.
Some years ago, on a whim and with no intention of pursuing it as a
career, I enrolled in and finished a 12 month long massage therapy
You should message me if
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Ok, so here's the deal. There are three things you should know
about me right off the bat:
1. Many people on OKC (and in the world in general) feel their
lives are somehow incomplete, and are searching for
someone/something to complete them. I am not one of those people. I
love new people and new experiences, but I am already happy.
2. I am in a committed but open relationship with a great girl, and
have been for several years. I am listed as "available" because I
am available, but that comes with some limitations. I fall in love
easily, I care genuinely, and I carefully follow my own set of
rules. If you're not interested in that don't say you weren't
3. I am intelligent, educated, and articulate, but I am not
perfect. I don't take myself very seriously. As long as you're not
the kind of person who takes themselves overly seriously, we'll
probably get along very well.
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