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tripped-in-dark

31 Newark, DE Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:42am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Quite possibly the least needy person you will ever meet.

Impulsive. Excitable. Short attention span. Very gullible.

Kind but not nice.

Extrovert who thinks he's an introvert, or vice versa.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a very active person. I lift weights, I run, I hike, I climb, I snowboard. I'm a distance runner; I've run marathons and I want to do an ultramarathon next year. Something about endurance sports calls to me.

I'm greedy. I want to see and do and taste and touch everything the world has to offer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a good listener, I'm good at being stubborn. I'm good at getting people to open up to me.

I'm a good runner.

I'm good at snowboarding. I'm good at trying new things, especially things that scare me.

I'm a pretty good cook.

I'm good at pushing myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a half-asian mix. That used to be a scarlet letter, but now we seem to be... trendy? Rock on.

I'm fit and lean. I have a mohawk and dimples.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I My favorite TV show of all time is Arrested Development, followed by Archer. I try not to get into dramas, they suck me in, and reality TV upsets me (why can't everyone just be goddamn nice to each other). I have a confession to make: I haven't owned a TV since 2008, and I don't miss it. If I want to watch something I'll watch it on Netflix.

Books, yes. I read a fair number of books, probably about 30 to 50 per year. Maybe 1/4 of them are fiction. I've recently stalled on the Dark Tower series (not ready for it to end) and picked up Gravity's Rainbow. When I finish that I've got The Brothers Karamazov in the queue.

Love southern Italian food, since my grandparents were from Sicily and Calabria. Nothing fancy, but I have a lot of memories attached to the smell of cutlets frying in olive oil and overripe tomatoes cooking down on a sunny August afternoon.

Everyone has eclectic taste in music, so I feel dumb saying that. Currently I've been really into Twenty One Pilots, Portugal The Man, City and Colour. My absolute favorite thing to see live is jazz. Jazz lives.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This section always feels like I'm either being dramatic or copping out. Yeah, I know that saying I couldn't do without food isn't a huge revelation, but it seems insulting to those without food to imply I couldn't live without the internet.

1. The internet.
2. Wide open spaces.
3. Human contact.
4. Places without human contact.
5. Music.
6. Occasional periods of quiet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Running, snowboarding, work, things I want to make. Members of the opposite sex. When I'll work up the guts to finish my skydiving license.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In the winter, I'm probably either snowboarding under the stars or wishing I was.

In the rest of the year I'm probably at a bar with friends or stuffing my fat face with homecooked food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am extraordinarily gullible.

I have a thing for redheads.

Some years ago, on a whim and with no intention of pursuing it as a career, I enrolled in and finished a 12 month long massage therapy program.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Ok, so here's the deal. There are three things you should know about me right off the bat:

1. Many people on OKC (and in the world in general) feel their lives are somehow incomplete, and are searching for someone/something to complete them. I am not one of those people. I love new people and new experiences, but I am already happy.

2. I am in a committed but open relationship with a great girl, and have been for several years. I am listed as "available" because I am available, but that comes with some limitations. I fall in love easily, I care genuinely, and I carefully follow my own set of rules. If you're not interested in that don't say you weren't warned.

3. I am intelligent, educated, and articulate, but I am not perfect. I don't take myself very seriously. As long as you're not the kind of person who takes themselves overly seriously, we'll probably get along very well.