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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 4
Asian, White
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Christianity and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Quite possibly the least needy person you will ever meet.

Polyamorous. Impulsive. Excitable. Very gullible.

Kind but not nice.

Extrovert who thinks he's an introvert, or vice versa.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a very active person. I lift weights, I run, I hike, I climb, I snowboard. I'm a distance runner; I've run marathons and I want to do an ultramarathon next year. Something about endurance sports calls to me.

I'm greedy. I want to see and do and taste and touch everything the world has to offer.

Some years ago, on a whim and with no intention of pursuing it as a career, I enrolled in and finished a 12 month long massage therapy program.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a good listener, I'm good at being stubborn. I'm good at getting people to open up to me.

I'm a good runner.

I'm good at snowboarding. I'm good at trying new things, especially things that scare me.

I'm a pretty good cook.

I'm good at pushing myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a half-asian mix. That used to be a scarlet letter, but now we seem to be... trendy? Rock on.

I'm fit and lean. I have dimples when I smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Arrested Development, Californication, Archer, Venture Brothers

Recently: For Whom The Bell Tolls, Jitterbug Perfume, Still Life With Woodpecker, Stardust, a handful of Bukowski works, House of Holes, Starship Troopers, Time Enough for Love, House of Leaves, So Long and Thanks for All the Fish

I love southern Italian food; my grandparents were from Sicily and Calabria. Nothing fancy, but I have a lot of memories attached to the smell of cutlets frying in olive oil and overripe tomatoes cooking down on a sunny August afternoon.

Everyone has eclectic taste in music, so I feel dumb saying that. Currently I've been really into Twenty One Pilots, Portugal The Man, City and Colour, Bitter Ruin, Tim Minchin. My absolute favorite thing to see live is jazz. Jazz lives.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. New things to learn.
2. Wide open spaces.
3. Human contact.
4. Places without human contact.
5. Music.
6. Occasional periods of quiet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Running, snowboarding, work, things I want to make. Members of the opposite sex. When I'll work up the guts to finish my skydiving license.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In the winter, I'm probably either snowboarding under the stars or wishing I was.

In the rest of the year I'm probably at a bar with friends or stuffing my fat face with homecooked food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am extraordinarily gullible.

I have a thing for redheads.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Ok, so here's the deal. There are three things you should know about me right off the bat:

1. Many people on OKC (and in the world in general) feel their lives are somehow incomplete, and are searching for someone/something to complete them. I am not one of those people. I love new people and new experiences, but I am already happy.

2. I am in a committed but open relationship with a great girl, and have been for several years. I am listed as "available" because I am available, but that comes with some limitations. I fall in love easily, I care genuinely, and I carefully follow my own set of rules. If you're not interested in that don't say you weren't warned.

3. I am intelligent, educated, and articulate, but I am not perfect. I don't take myself very seriously. As long as you're not the kind of person who takes themselves overly seriously, we'll probably get along very well.