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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:31am
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Has kids and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do. name is Stephanie.

I'm an INFP left-handed female Sagittarian pot-smoking non-monogamous writer.

I am in an open marriage with HopeDreamsLove
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Striving for more happiness and more honesty. Pouring love into my amazing little family. Writing writing writing, etc.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Opening up to strangers, feeling very intensely, getting a lot of pleasure from noticing and paying attention to one small detail of something, like a 12-seconds of a song or an indentation on your body or the way the clouds are moving over the moon.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My killer instinct. They don't really notice it, but their dying form falls in a silent bow of respect.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: A Book of Luminous Things; Picnic, Lightening; Collected Works of Billy the Kid.
Movies: Billy Madison, Amelie, Ghost Dog, Fight Club, Science of Sleep
Music: Elvis Costello, Beck, Stereo MC's
Food: kale avocado homemade bread weird fruit
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
If I must, I could do without everything. Except clean feet in bed.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to consume less. What music to listen to. How to get back to Esalen. What kind of soap I'm going to make next. Meeting new people. How to get some quality alone time. How immensely grateful i am for being healthy and warm and loved and able to love and for having unlimited access to clean water...I spend a lot of time being grateful for water.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with lots of friends and lots of kids and eating amazing food. or hiding in my house, alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I poop. We all poop. We have sex, almost all of us. We hate people we should love and love people we should hate. Most of the time, private ends up meaning shame. I strive and mostly succeed at not being ashamed of the things life gives me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you love vegetables, poetry and radical honesty
you are cool with not being the only one
you are open minded and accepting of everyone

you should not message me if you are cheating on someone (well, unless you just want to talk about it.)