Hi...my name is Stephanie.
I'm an INFP left-handed female Sagittarian pot-smoking non-monogamous writer.
I am in an open marriage with HopeDreamsLove
My fantasy is to find one special guy who wants to be with both of us.
What I’m doing with my life
Striving for more happiness and more honesty. Pouring love into my
amazing little family. Writing writing writing, etc.
I’m really good at
Opening up to strangers, feeling very intensely, getting a lot of
pleasure from noticing and paying attention to one small detail of
something, like a 12-seconds of a song or an indentation on your
body or the way the clouds are moving over the moon.
The first things people usually notice about me
My killer instinct. They don't really notice it, but their dying
form falls in a silent bow of respect.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: A Book of Luminous Things; Picnic, Lightening; Collected
Works of Billy the Kid.
Movies: Billy Madison, Amelie, Ghost Dog, Fight Club, Science of
Music: Elvis Costello, Beck, Stereo MC's
Food: kale avocado homemade bread weird fruit
The six things I could never do without
If I must, I could do without everything. Except clean feet in bed.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to consume less. What music to listen to. How to get back to
Esalen. What kind of soap I'm going to make next. Meeting new
people. How to get some quality alone time. How immensely grateful
i am for being healthy and warm and loved and able to love and for
having unlimited access to clean water...I spend a lot of time
being grateful for water.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with lots of friends and lots of kids and eating
amazing food. or hiding in my house, alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I poop. We all poop. We have sex, almost all of us. We hate people
we should love and love people we should hate. Most of the time,
private ends up meaning shame. I strive and mostly succeed at not
being ashamed of the things life gives me.
You should message me if
you love vegetables, poetry and radical honesty
you are cool with not being the only one
you are open minded and accepting of everyone
you should not message me if you are cheating on someone (well,
unless you just want to talk about it.)