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47 Berlin, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 22–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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My name is Stephanie.

I'm both really awesome and really terrible. I used to think that one cancelled out the other, but recently I've been realizing that that's not true. At least not for me.

I have been struggling with depression for the past couple of years, and isolating myself. And I'm actually pretty much always happy to be alone..I spend time in my studio, writing, making things with paper and glue and glitter, doing yoga, reading poetry, smoking, listening to music. I love all these things and I feel happy every single day that I have so much free time to do them.

What I'm missing in my life is deep emotional connections with people. I said in therapy the other day that he, my therapist, is the only emotional support I feel right now. I found this interesting because six years ago, when I was happy, and going through the breakup of a long relationship, I wrote in my journal: Who do I have to support me through this? And I answered with a long list of names. On the one hand, it makes me sad that I don't feel that support right now (even though I probably could reach out to anyone of those people and feel at least some support and kindness.) On the other hand, it reminds me that it is something I am capable of.

While I'm getting as much emotional support as I can from my therapist, at the same time, I'm super excited to meet new people! Part of my depression is coming from the fact that I'm a city girl living in suburbia. I didn't know this until I had a baby and bought a house out here. (It is a really unique place I live, btw, and if you're interested, please ask me about it.)

I am in an open marriage with HopeDreamsLove. Sort of. Let's talk about it.

If you prefer someone who always wears clean clothes and values looks over comfort, you probably won't like me that much.

I tend to be more attracted to someone younger, um...much younger. And someone my own age who can hold my attention is very appealing, too.
What I’m doing with my life
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Striving for more happiness and more honesty.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cutting paper, talking about myself, making you talk about yourself, listening to the same song over and over and over again.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My killer instinct. They don't really notice it, but their dying form falls in a silent bow of respect.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: A Book of Luminous Things; Picnic, Lightening; Collected Works of Billy the Kid.
Movies: Billy Madison, Amelie, Ghost Dog, Fight Club, Science of Sleep
Music: Elvis Costello, Beck, Stereo MC's
Food: kale avocado homemade bread weird fruit
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
If I must, I could do without everything. Except clean feet in bed.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to consume less. What music to listen to. How to get back to Esalen. What kind of soap I'm going to make next. Meeting new people. How to get some quality alone time. How immensely grateful i am for being healthy and warm and loved and able to love and for having unlimited access to clean water...I spend a lot of time being grateful for water.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with lots of friends and lots of kids and eating amazing food. or hiding in my house, alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I poop. We all poop. We have sex, almost all of us. We hate people we should love and love people we should hate. Most of the time, private ends up meaning shame. I strive and mostly succeed at not being ashamed of the things life gives me.
You should message me if
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you love vegetables, poetry and radical honesty
you are cool with not being the only one
you are open minded and accepting of everyone