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21 New York, NY Cis Woman

Cis Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Trying to quit
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Hindi (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
studying human rights & asian & middle eastern cultures. i like scotch, global health equity, americana/folk, and bojack horseman. i've worked on robot chicken and as a sexual health educator. i have an ugly brick of a rat named the great ratsby and i love him.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
writing things, bartending, and bingewatching supernatural.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i swear a lot and i'm a grumpy old man.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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the toast, haruki murakami, william gibson, tamora pierce, sci fi, nature documentaries, gory horror, and kitchen nightmares. next on my movie agenda is a girl walks home alone at night.
i dig spicy food, sushi, a good burrito, and drunk face-sized pizza from Koronet's.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
cheesy rice cakes
ice water
a passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to be more awesome
how much work I should probably be doing
why i always want a Hot Pocket even though i know they're gross
how many wealthy guys on this site don't realize that Jay Gatsby is not a role model
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
netflix binging, going out, watching a movie, or drunk and criticizing kyriarchies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once peed on my school's law library.
You should message me if
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you have anything more interesting than "Hey," "Heyy," or "Heyyy" to say.
you wanna get nerdy over some food!
you speak hindi better than me (you do).
you want to go to the met.
you wanna show off how cool you are instead of how you think i'm bang-able.

i am awful at starting conversations and pretty much only send out corny jokes and bad flirty gifs of zach galifianakis.


if you answered yes to engaging in rape play or fantasies you need to move right along. don't message me about this, i'm not interested in discussing your justifications for it, and i've had to have too many conversations about it on here. sexual choices are not exempt from critique or from participation in larger dangerous social norms, rape play is different from submission, and that is seriously all i'm willing to say on the matter.

not interested in couples or group play.