I'm looking for someone who can both talk and listen. I believe a couple has to see themselves as being a team. If one of them has a problem, they both have a problem. If you argue, you have to work it out. You can't have a winner and loser because you're a team. You have to compromise. If you have a name you wouldn't call your best friend, then you'd better not call your partner that either. You are going to be best friends for life. You need to keep each other happy as much as possible. You must always have respect for each other and not take each other for granted. I need to find someone who will be totally committed to the marriage and agree it's forever. Divorce is only allowed in traumatic situations. Otherwise, we'll get counseling and work it out.
2/11/14 I just took a personality test and this is what it said about me: " As partner, this type is loyal and reliable and is willing to invest a lot in a relationship. Mutual respect and tolerance are very important to Sensitive Doers. Their love of pleasure makes them a pleasant companion with whom one can experience intensive moments. They like to look after their partner with attentiveness and small gifts and are very sensitive to the partner’s needs - often more than to their own." True dat!