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41 M Charlotte, NC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:39am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am dedicated to everyone and everything I find important in life. I love that which and whom I am dedicated to. I have a good mind to make good decisions and know the world around me. Thus, I am doing pretty well... :)

I am conservative and very proud of it. I am Libertarian, hard-working, pro-capitalism, and laissez-faire.

I am dedicated, loving, and intelligent
What I’m doing with my life
I sell on eBay for a living- women's finer fashions mostly, but books and other things as well. That's how I am an exec/manager: I own a small business. I play poker competitively, and am pretty good at it. I hope to one day parlay that into something that makes me a little money. I like coins and stamps, I read and travel, and try to learn all the time at any time. I always am thinking about how to improve myself, be it mentally, situationally, physically, emotionally... the last being why I am here.
I’m really good at
Latin, trivia, poker, being a nice guy to a nice lady. Driving long distances and not falling asleep. Finding the things to see that people would not otherwise find. Retaining knowledge. Being compassionate. Hearts (the card game). Being sincere and set in my ways. Learning new alphabets: I know Roman (this one), Russian, Ukrainian, and Greek. I'm thinking of picking up another. I think I would be good at learning languages, as I was good with Latin... but I would have to learn auto-didactically... oh, and using big words when being specific...
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes (girls seem to like them), my politeness, and perhaps my way of speaking using big words :p After that, my voice, which some call a hypnotic baritone...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Tom Clancy, anything... classical literature... Roman literature (very classical)... the Die Hard films... Ice Road Truckers, Ancient Aliens (I don't buy all their ideas, but I do like the places they profile), Hangar 1, The Blacklist... classical, semi-classical, pop, and crossover classical music (Hayley Westenra is my favorite singer)... Celtic Woman... Japanese food rocks, as does bacon and eggs...
The six things I could never do without
Jesus Christ (then a big gap, as He is All and Everything), knowledge, and the four kinds of love as defined by the Greeks: agape, philia, eros, and storge (ἀγάπη, φιλία, ἔρως, και στοργή)- love of mankind, close friendship, romantic love, and love of family. Philia and eros often proceed from the love of someone special in my life...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Making myself into a better person. The hope of finding love, and of finding love in general. All things important to me, especially the relationships I have in my life. The next world, though that's a way off.
On a typical Friday night I am
For now, playing poker and/or bowling. That can be subject to change for the right person :) A beer or 2 sometimes comes to pass. The worst of this all is I presently do every bit of that alone, with nobody to enjoy the time with (no special person, i.e.) This I would like to change...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a phobia of going to school: didaskaleinophobia. It caused me to drop out of high school in 1989 (am GED Class of 1993- no prom or cap and gown ceremony included lol).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–41
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're a nice, sweet, charming lady who would like a nice guy in her life.

If you have no problem with the fact that I am 41 (but live 25 and act my age), whatever your age might be (18+). I shan't lie: I like ladies younger than myself. And will happily admit same without hesitation.

If you have a strong intellect and a good mind, can talk on weighty topics, and can have fun without going to a different club every night or getting totally drunk... :)