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26 F Melbourne, Australia

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:42am
Asian, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
5′ 7″ (1.69m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Other, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Tagalog (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Maori (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
i am queer & i tend to engage in polyamory & non-monogamous relationships though it definitely depends on the people i'm interested in etc. i'm attracted to all genders and non binary people etc. i'm fat. i'm a feminist. kiwi/scottish/filipino. if you don't like it, LATERZ!

i like to listen to records, internet about & hang out with my cat. i also enjoy =
playing music, food, movies, art, being surrounded by queers/fags/ dykes/ trans* peeps/ bisexuals/queer friendly straight people, smashing patriarchy, decolonising, creating, expressing, singing, blazing, dancing, getting obsessed with a really good tv series, big obnoxious jewellery, learning, honesty, volunteering, twerking, sex, reading, embellishment/shiny colourful shit in general, design, "fashion"/style, water, performing, writing, hair & all kinds of the hirsute , to do lists, cats, booty parties & karaoke
What I’m doing with my life
just relocated to melbourne so i am currently floatin around looking for a job but in the meantime i serve vocals in a band, DJ, cause a ruckus, talk to my cat, try to love more than hate, continuously try to cull my wardrobe, help organise events centred round queers & POC that fundraise for causes that effect our community, dance & pretend i'm not allergic to dairy/lactose intolerant.
I’m really good at
listening, communicating, laughing, eating, singing, dancing, performing, yelling, cat whispering, sleeping, having hawk-like eye sight, overhearing the darndest things, stalking, painting nails, drinking water, blazing, karaoke, cooking, saving power, observing, recycling, reusing, upcycling, collecting, impersonating the voices of various artist ensemble songs, fucking up the english language, standing up for what i believe in, hoarding & packing large amounts of things into small spaces in a perfect tetris style.
The first things people usually notice about me
visually - my fat ass/what i'm wearing or my hair. or they might hear my obnoxious laugh or maybz delivering sass to some jerk trying to kill my vibe.
on a personal interactive level i assume people notice that i'm either quiet & anxious or loud & obnoxious. depends on the buzz.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
spiceworld, donnie darko, fleetwood mac, gossip, sia, neutral milk hotel, spice girls, crystal castles, spinnerette, the knife, robbie williams, lady gaga, m.i.a., lasagne, harry potter, butter chicken/paneer, michael jackson, pies, bat for lashes, sleater kinney, guns n roses, valencia by michelle tea, fever ray, tegan & sara, female trouble, patrick wolf, britney spears, beyonce, lykke li, santogold, peaches, ludacris, cheese, jackson five, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, to wong foo with love from julie newmar, the girl most likely to.., zoolander, a dirty shame, the distillers, iron maiden, cats, a mighty wind, polyester, 200 cigarettes, autobiographies, the land of oz, siouxsie & the banshees, fleetwood mac, cher, madonna, janet jackson, divine, everything by john waters, liquid sky, muriels wedding, zola jesus, yma sumac, hole, black sabbath, cocteau twins, janet jackson, eggs benedict, breaking bad, weeds, hells kitchen USA, snoop dogg
american horror story, bored to death, peanut butter & jam, sushi, burgers, light asylum, new bloods, portlandia, grimes, tim & eric awesome show great job!, CSS, ghost adventures, grimes, yoko ono, pies, parks & recreation, crass, john maus, x ray spex, fucked up, ru pauls drag race, jonte, tina turner, ssion, ESG, the screamers, pizza, rupauls drag race, talking heads, cyndi lauper, times square, kanye west, paris is burning, elliott smith, big freedia, mykki blanco, brooke candy, prince, bikini kill, my mad fat diary
The six things I could never do without
my cat, music, the internet, friends, a bed & food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
music, fashion, crushes, love, sexuality, fucking, all forms of relations, people i love, positive output into the universe, my cat, privilege, photography, decolonisation, aliens, writing, visibility, art, jewellery, food, queers, the past, the future, the insignificance vs significance of my actions & words, invention, re-invention, time, life, change, films, reality, fantasy , designing, colour, the world, art, hair, humans, equality, the paranormal, nature, things i am grateful for, words, evolution, actions, death, food, thoughts, living, re-evaluation of ones beliefs, injustice, oppression, real human power
On a typical Friday night I am
at home hanging out/eating/watching stuff or blazing/drinking/dancing the night away at a friends house. or maybe a party. or watching bands play or maybe even playing a show. or i could possibly be DJing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i'm willing to admit most private things.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–44
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you're not a WHITE CIS MAN LOOKING AT MY PROFILE who just wants to say "hi how are you" and/or uses the n word.
(i don't reply to any of "hi how are you" messages, infact i delete most of them as soon as i see them. who the fuck cares how my day was/how i am etc when you don't even know me. theres a difference between not knowing how to start conversations with babes and just being fucking lazy.)

you're obviously not sexist/racist/transphobic/homophobic/fatphobic/whorephobic.
you don't make rape/molestation jokes.
you don't use "gay" as a pejorative.

you love food, cats & music and anything else i've mentioned.

you don't have crazy hangups on pubes/armpit hair or scars, stretchmarks, cellulite etc

you can provide me with thee ultimate non dairy cheese substitute that legit actually tastes as good as real cheese does

you're 4:20 friendly!!!!

you're not a total bonehead but you totally wanna bone!

i'm keen for new friends, dates, crushes, casual flings & other such social or sexy interactions, even if its just long distance internet friendships!


IF you are someone i have literally nothing in common with or a high enemy percentage and you're into being financially dominated, message me and we can arrange something. i love cash pigs/human ATMs. i'm not a gold digger, i'm just fucking broke and assholes deserve to pay my bills.