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49 Raleigh, NC Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 12:47pm
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
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I'm very down to earth, liberal, kind hearted to a fault - probably. Like hanging out with my friends, hiking, swimming, gardening, going to see a good band, etc.

Tend to be extroverted once I get to know folks, I'd rather hang out with a small group as opposed to a large crowd - tend to get kinda shy in large groups.

Love a dive like the Goat. Not real crazy about Glenwood South - too trendy.

Like the tv shows Dr. Who and Lost, so on those two things alone I guess I'm kinda dorky. But in the best possible way....

If your idea of the perfect woman is someone with the body of a stick and big breasts move on...I don't fit that profile. I have hips, a butt and the breasts that go along with that. They are all what nature gave me so if you aren't looking for curves I'm not your type.

Good grief what to say, right??

Oh, and I think I play a pretty good game of backgammon....any takers?!?

I am a shy extrovert, kinda goofy, and good-hearted
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just got a promotion so I'm basically working two jobs at the moment, but the light is at the end of the tunnel and I'm looking forward to learning a lot more.

Hmmm what else am I doing with my life??? ...patiently waiting for Fall?!?

Went to Ireland a few months agoa- what an amazing place! Hoping to get up to Asheville in the near future.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good friend, backgammon, hiking, gardening, picking out a good beer...

Hmm what else?!?! Math, maybe?
The first things people usually notice about me
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My good nature or my sense of humor. My smile or my hair...who knows?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: The Proposition (it's not porn it's a western!!!), 28 Days Later, After the Wedding (Danish film), Reservoir Dogs, Donnie Darko (great flick - one of the few movies I've watched several times), Dazed and Confused, really there are so many its hard to say -quirky films and don't make me watch movies that make me feel like I've lost brain cells.

Wide range of music- listening to Dropkick Murphys right now. Aerosmith and The Who are probably my faves of all time; Audioslave, Shinedown, Seether, etc.

Books - To Kill A Mockingbird is my all time favorite; The Graveyard Book - really good; Into the Wild - recommend it; stuff by Stephen King - currently reading Under the Dome - pretty good so far; anything by David Sedaris - especially good when you need a laugh

A skinny mocha from Cup A Joe
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, my family and friends, a good book, a computer, coffee, being able to travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I could do to be a better person/citizen of the world.

If I could go anywhere in the world, what places and people would I like to see/meet?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Two options usually:

At the Flying Saucer for a beer or two with my friends or

hitting the gym and then home to watch a video.

Always up for something different though...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Pllllll...I don't know. Ask me, I'll probably answer.
You should message me if
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You are laid back/easy going. Enjoy a good dark beer. Found any of this funny or interesting. Or if you just want to give me a shout!

P.S. - If I've never met you face to face don't ask me to Skype or video chat...I have no desire to see your junk and you aren't gonna get to see my boobs!

P.P.S. - Don't try to grope me on a first's not gonna go over well. Be respectful - think how you would want your daughter, sister, or mother to be treated by a man.