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Last online
Sep 28
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Has cats
What I’m doing with my life
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I studied drawing/painting, so naturally I work at a grocery store lifting heavy things, but at least it's a cooperative. Unfortunately it's not what I want to be doing with my life, that I haven't figured out yet.

Off-time includes painting, making music, hiking (where I get my inspiration/images that I work from, from), or let's be honest, watching way too many shows (as of late).
I’m really good at
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The first things people usually notice about me
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I would have to assume extreme shyness, to the point that some people might think I'm a jerk cuz I don't talk. It just takes me a little bit to warm up is all.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some books/authors: Van Gogh's letters, The Odyssey, Michael Pollan, John Berger, David Sedaris, the final speeches of Malcolm X, Marx, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Chaplin's autobiography, Watership Down, Eckhart Tolle, the latest National Geographic.

Generally prefer to watch older and/or "artsy" (although i hate that term) movies. Favorite filmmakers: Jacques Tati, Chaplin, Buster Keaton, Jerry Lewis, Robert Bresson, Chris Marker, F.W. Murnau, Antonioni, Fritz Lang, Hitchcock, Godard, Ozu, Mizoguchi, Howard Hawks, John Ford. Oh and of course David Wain!

Shows (I typically prefer comedy): Arrested Development (although i couldn't get into the 4th season), Party Down, The Tim and Eric Awesome Show, Home Movies, Seinfeld, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Newsradio, Dog Bites Man, Between Two Ferns, The Office U.K. (so much better), Stella!, Michael and Michael Have Issues, Strangers With Candy, anything by Louie C.K., Breaking Bad, Portlandia.

Music: anything that moves me; hip-hop, mainly New York stuff from the 90s, classical, jazz, old punk, contemporary indie stuff like Broadcast (one of my favorite bands definitely), Air, Sun Kil Moon, Sonic Youth, just to name a few.

Food, all so good. Current favorites though include SOL (Puerto Rican), Little Star pizza, ramen (ramen very recently discovered, SO GOOD!!).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'd be quite sad without: music, art, my cat, laughter, friends, and coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I should be painting, what I'm gonna wear today, art and its place in the now, the inevitable and much needed collapse of capitalism, my next meal, aesthetics, how humans are fucking over each other and the planet and how terribly depressing it is, but also how to enjoy life in spite of these goings-on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually having a drink somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My voice still occasionally cracks?
You should message me if
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you think we'd get along.