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troublemaker66

43 / M / gay / Single

Minneapolis, Minnesota

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am friendly, honest, and stable.

My Self-Summary

I'm a pretty laid-back guy who, after an absence, is looking at the idea of getting back into the dating pool. I am not at all impressed by money, possessions, and all that. I would far sooner date someone who works retail and is happy than someone who works in a fancy office but is miserable. I definitely have a spiritual side, but it has nothing to do with gods/goddesses. I am interested in politics, but not necessarily in participating. My life is enjoyable but hardly jet-set. I am delighted to do work that generally I am passionate about. Nonetheless, I do not have all the answers to life's mysteries, do I?

What I’m doing with my life

Currently, I am working on a variety of projects involving the legal system in Minnesota. Additionally, I am taking classes in (loosely) comparative religions and Chinese (in preparation for a trip there in November 2009), and am part of a committee organizing summer 2010 assemblies at my place of worship. I am also adjusting to the reality of having a diabetic cat! And spending good time with friends along the way.

I’m really good at

holding my own in a conversation, writing, problem-solving (OK, much of the time, not all of the time!), and probably other things too.

The first things people usually notice about me

Physically, my eyes. Beyond that, I hope they notice my sense of humor and having people suspect I am intelligent is often useful as well.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Food: anything South Asian, esp. Indian and Thai, or Mexican. Books: some of my favorite authors include Margaret Atwood, Michael Cunningham, and David Leavitt (and I will cop to having looked forward to the new Dan Brown book). Movies: anything black-and-white and/or pre-1945 will probably get my attention; otherwise, I like comedies or dramas, not so into action and violence. Music: my XM is often tuned to any of the following: 80s alternative, classical, opera, new age, or dance.

The six things I could never do without

Books, friends, a sense of purpose, music, sleep, and access to nature.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

my work (does it still make a difference, will the economy affect it, where am I headed professionally), my activities at my place of worship, and other affairs of the world.

On a typical Friday night I am

either at home being supervised by my cats, or out with friends (dinner, cards/games, movie, museum, etc.). Not much of a bar person, but I have no ideological opposition to them or anything.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I occasionally blow money on the oddest things, and have a weakness for getting things framed.

You should message me if

you have the slightest inclination to.