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41 • Hayward, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–42
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 7
- 5′ 2″ (1.57m)
- Body type
- Buddhism, and laughing about it
- Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Has kids
I really don't have a set agenda here beyond meeting new people and making friends, and taking things from there. I like things to happen organically, to let a relationship develop into what it should be, and not limit myself by setting up some idea of what I want it to be before I even know a person. But I do believe in True Love, and am a bit of a hopeless romantic. That said, I'm also open to just about anything, so don't be shy...
And above all else-- I love to travel. So please, Gentlemen from Far Off--send me a note, and tell me why your city/region/country is great. You never know, perhaps I'll come visit sometime...
Movies: Hamlet (Tennant/Stewart), Sound of Music, Trainspotting, Gandhi, Bent, Arn, Iron Man etc., WWII documentaries, Auntie Mame, The Princess Bride, LOTR, Star Trek (original and next), Office Space, Velvet Goldmine, The Red Violin, Amadeus, Snatch, American Pyscho, anything by Tarantino, Dean Spanley, Henry V (both Olivier and Brannagh), Stranger than Fiction, slow British movies with long pauses, Star Wars IV-VI, Luther, Newsies. Yeah, that's right, Newsies, worst film ever, but I'm not afraid to put it on my list.
Television: Doctor Who, Sherlock, Murder She Wrote, Rosemary and Thyme, Star Trek, X-Files, Lie to Me, Midsomer Murders, Wire in the Blood, The West Wing, Animaniacs, Bones, Red Dwarf, History and Smithsonian Channel anything, Foyle's War. I love Netflix; there's nothing better than watching old shows and getting to see things like Orlando Bloom murdered with a pitchfork or Joaquin Phoenix trapped in a toy factory with a murderer on the loose.
Music: 80s new wave/synth pop, punk rock, anything you can dance too, stuff that's funny at kareoke, 70s singer/song writers, disco, funk, folk, industrial, moody music for those with crushing ennui, world tunes... Most things really, although I hate new age saxophone jazz with the burning intensity of a thousand white hot suns.
Food: Almost anything, although I tend to draw the line at offal. I'm just as happy eating hash browns and drinking coffee in a diner, or getting burritos from a truck parked out front the Grand Auto as I am going to a Classy Restaurant for Fancy Foods. And yes, I know how to dress and what kind of manners are required for both those scenarios.
My Fountain Pen(s)
shit, I suppose I should have Ink, too, or I won't get very far, now will I? So there's Seven.
I've already got this one covered.
You understand the message format here is that of e-mail, rather than text. This means there is no limit on how many characters you can type, so you can actually spell words out in their entirety. I don't expect a lengthy missive, but if you can't be bothered think of more than a one sentence, cliche salutation as an introduction, you can assume that I won't be bothered to message you back.
You like the rain.
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