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  • Ages 25-38
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Nov 20
5' 9" (1.75m)
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My self-summary
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Oh, golly. I am looking to meet intelligent, curious, and fun humans of the male persuasion who can make me laugh, think, and experience new perspectives on life. I'm open to dates and new friends.

I like eating a lot, seeing movies, live performance, obsessively reading books about WWII history, and all sorts of other stuff. If you like these things, too (or perhaps even if you don't), say hello.

I really like to travel, but I don't do it nearly often enough. I love Scandinavia.
What I’m doing with my life
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So far I've spent my entire life refining my own special brand of angst. Beyond that, I work in marketing for a film company that releases foreign and independent films and I quite enjoy it for the most part. I consume things - film, art, music, books. food, and even entire planets sometimes - but I'd like to channel a bit of my energy into creating.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at tripping, spilling things, walking into walls and into people. In yiddish, you might call me a klutz.

I'm also pretty great at board games, crosswords, guitar hero, and lots of other things that are useless in the grand scheme of things. On the other side, I'm good at listening, I'm good at my job, and I make a really delicious pumpkin bread. I'm good at other things, too, but I'd rather let people judge for themselves on whether I am good at them or not.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my laugh? my sneeze? my lasciviously luscious lips? I also have a pretty unique walk. It's bouncy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I work as a marketer of movies, so I spend lots of time thinking about them and seeing them and they're a large part of my life. You don't need to love them as much as I do, but it would be helpful if you were somewhat interested and curious about them and were not completely 100% against sitting in a movie on a sunny day every once in a while. My movie love is so diverse and that I can't really list any favorites here. Plus if I list favorite directors or whatever you'll just think I'm pretentious and you'd be right. But if you'd like to discuss movies in person, I'd be up for that! I will tell you that I really love Hitchcock, but who doesn't?

Music: My musical touchstones are 60s British invasion, post-punk and new wave, Britpop from the 90s, especially Pulp. I love oldies from the 50s through the 80s. I'm a big fan of Joy Division. I also love classical, reggae, some electronic stuff, some pop music, and all sorts of other things.

Books: Really into historical non-fiction, especially books on WWII and Post-war Europe. But I also like short stories. James Joyce's "Dubliners" is probably my favorite book in English literature.

Food: Lobsters, oysters, pretty much all seafood. I like fruit quite a bit. Oh, and luckily I have a quick metabolism, as I am crazy about pastries. I could live on nothing but puff pastry and pie for the rest of my life, I think. You might not know it from looking at me, but I am extremely passionate about food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The End of Days. You might call it "the future."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeing a movie and getting a drink seems to be my latest habit. By the end of the week, work has left me emotionally drained, so I might also be prone to staying inside with a bottle of wine and being lazy. Wouldn't mind meeting someone who drew me out more often on Fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a compulsive underwear buying habit.
You should message me if
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you like your men thin and a tad dorky. Also, if you are smart, witty, fun, spontaneous, open-minded, in possession of a sweet smile and a pleasant disposition. Cute is nice, too.

You should be someone who says "yes" far more often than you say "no."

Also, if you agree that "Roxanne" is the only even remotely listenable song that The Police ever recorded and that the movie American Beauty is a piece of crap.