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troyhorse

71 / M / straight / Single

Port Townsend, Washington

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I am not able to, characterize myself, and in three words.

My Self-Summary

Wild, stable, faithful, feral, strong, vulnerable, compassionate, loving, adventurous, emotionally available, brilliant, creative, productive, witty, boring, lazy and stupid.

What I’m doing with my life

Raising my two boys with my parenting partner.
Figuring out how to spend the winter months in a sunny climate, but not just any sunny climate. I would get very bored sitting around on a beach somewhere. I want the stimulation of being productive and interacting with interesting people.

I’m really good at

What I'm really interested in.

The first things people usually notice about me

I've never asked so I don't know.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Depends on my mood, so I don't have favorites. Having said that, I generally think about stuff that inspires and/or amuses me in this context so here it is.
Movies: Flight of the Phoenix ( the original production), Shawshank Redemption, Little Miss Sunshine.
Music: Playing guitar hero with my sons, dancing music
Food: Any ethnicity artfully prepared with fresh ingredients
Books: What I'm interested in at the time. Most recently, anything about China, monetary history and how to profit from the impending collapse of the dollar but in the past you could pick almost any subject and I've read about it. I can't finish a book that is poorly written even if the subject matter is fascinating. Yes, I know that is a subjective judgment.

The six things I could never do without

I've done without everything at one time or another and I'm still alive, so I guess I'd have to say there's nothing in this category.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My sons' development and what they really need from me. How to be productive and have fun at the same time.

On a typical Friday night I am

What I want or need to do. Friday is not different from any other night.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Admit a private thing on a public site?????

You should message me if

You think it would be fun and/or interesting to go on a date with me and you have considerable flexibility about what kind of relationship(s) you want.