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45 Salt Lake City, UT Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 14, 2014
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Mostly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a man who believes in hard work, integrity, and pride. I joined the US Army at age 32. I waited two days for the recruiting center to open back up after closing due to the 9/11 attacks. I had to do something for my country, for the victims, and for myself. It was a crazy move after investing a number of years of hard work and climbing the corporate ladder in the field I left behind...but I wouldn't hesitate for even a split second to do it all over again. I did four combat tours in Operation Enduring Freedom/Operation Iraqi Freedom. I proudly served my country for ten years and was medically discharged at the peak of my military career. I was the lucky one in the family to get the hereditary diabetes gene. Apparently the Army feels you can no longer deploy with an insulin dependency, so if you can't are then rendered useless by Army standards. I basically took an early medical retirement. Life goes on.... Everything happens for a reason and I'm happy with my life. I had some great adventures and excitement and now its time for another chapter. I have a very smart and very gorgeous 16 year old daughter who has me wound around her little finger. She is an awesome student and a very talented competitive dancer who keeps me busy and occasionally gives me time to take her fishing. I spend a lot of time fishing and in the mountains. It's my sanctuary and it has just become a part of my life while growing up in this beautiful state. It's quiet, relaxing, and beautiful. Now I just want to find someone special to go with me!! I have been single for awhile now but haven't really dated someone steady for quite some time. I just haven't found that someone that is my friend, lover, and companion. I have a vacancy in my life that needs attention. I think I have s decent resume... LOL I posess some great qualities and I know I can use them to make someone special very happy. I'm not a player, I'm loyal, I'm pretty smart, and I'd like to think I'm pretty decent looking (or at least clean up pretty good). All great qualities, right? A HUGE part of my personality is laughter!!! I've been told that I'm a pretty funny guy and I love to tease a little and have a good time. I want to see people smile!! Let's face it, I have seen enough pain and suffering in this world throughout my military deployments. Now...I just can't think of anything in my life that is so bad that I can't see some kind of humor in it, or at least a bright side. Let's be honest, we all crave some affection, attention, and intimate contact, from the opposite sex. It's human nature to have those feelings but those are feelings that are not unfamiliar to any animal. I want more than a one night stand or booty call, that's not who I am nor what I am about. I'm not trying to sound cocky...but I am a damn good catch!! I'm not perfect by any means...but I am capable and willing to adapt for someone I care about. I need someone to laugh with and someone to hold. Someone I can build a relationship with. I know that somewhere there is a girl for me that is the SHIT!! Maybe here...maybe not. I'm putting it all out there just to see what happens. If there is someone on here for me....great!! If not, she's out there somewhere!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm not going to lie, sometimes I don't know what I've got going hour by hour....and I am loving that right now. But....that could change too. I like where things are headed...even if some of it is in rewind!!! Does that make sense???
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A little of this, a little of that....I am pretty good at a lot of things. If their is something I don't know, I'm more than willing to learn about it. Knowledge is power. Mostly... I am really good at being me!!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Horror, scifi, mystery, or action adventure all make for great books. I enjoy authors like Stephen King, Clive Barker, and Stanley Kubrick. Music....well that's a whole other animal. My taste varies by the.minute!! Right now I am really into Drive-By Truckers and some Dubstep. Some of my all time favorites include, but are not limited to: The Cult, Ministry, Tool, Alice in Chains (w/Layne Staley), Led Zep, Jane's Addiction, RHCP (Blood, Sugar, Sex, Magic and anything prior), Soundgarden, New Order, Pink Floyd, Willie Nielson, Adele, Faith no More, Joy Division, Metallica, Black Sabbath, Neko Case, Slayer, Tears for Fears, Patsy Cline, SNFU, Prodigy, Die Antwoord, Perfect Circle, Eminem, AWOL Nation, The Police, Norah Jones, Motley Crue, Siversun Pickups, Fugazi, The Dead Weather, Mike Watt, Brad Paisley, Mother Love Bone, The Smiths, The Who, Marilyn Manson, NWA, PiL, Johnny Cash, Chevelle, U2, Nitzer Ebb, RATM, Rush, Jason Aldean, Hank III, Kiss, and anything that has anything to do with Jack White, Neil Young, or Al Jourgensen. I can be a bit of a music snob with some artists and genres, but I'm always open to just about anything. I love a variety of different foods as well and I love to cook!! I've heard I'm pretty good at it too!! I love Mexican, Chinese, Italian, Greek, and my favorite, a good old fashioned ribeye or porterhouse steak.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've done without many things for many reasons. As long as I have my family and close friends, I don't think there is much I couldn't live without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future of this country and what it holds for the kids of today....especially my daughter.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends, hanging with my daughter or family, or at home watching TV or a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a people watcher!! I get a kick out of the crazy things people do when they think they're "invisible." Like driving and picking their nose....or fixing their underware in the middle of Walmart. LOL
You should message me if
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If you're looking for a guy to laugh and have fun with, a guy who isn't a womanizer or a player, A guy that has been to hell and back and still looks at life and finds something good to smile about.