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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
6' 4" (1.93m)
Body Type
Average build
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Kind, fun, mellow, professional, irreverent, cerebral, musical. I like things, and I do stuff.
What I’m doing with my life
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Coparenting my kid, listening to records, reading, writing, cooking, enjoying art and music, working, playing bass, living (mostly) healthy, trying to get out on the town from time to time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
This and that and some other stuff. There's also plenty of stuff I'm not good at, but that never stopped me from trying.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall, I have a deep voice and long eyelashes. Or so I'm told.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Long form reportage and fiction with journalistic tendencies, noir / crime novels, psychology books. Documentaries, foreign films & TV, goofy comedy, mindless action. Loud rock, rap music, old blues, soul and jazz. Farmers market produce, cured meats, tacos, whiskey, coffee, water.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, silence, mini-me, laughs, goals, warmth.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...I just spend a lot of time thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...Occupied (standing plans with a 7-year-old). The rest of the weekend and a few nights during the week are all mine (or yours).
You should message me if
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If, after a couple of emails, you'd like to meet up for a drink or a coffee or a bite to eat, take a walk / hike, or go to a museum, art gallery...something mellow and casual.