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trumuseseeker

59 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 7:14am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I consider myself fortunate. I have a great/going business that I love, a dual career as a professional classical musician, good health, good friends and opportunities to travel. The only thing that is missing is a great partner to share my travels, travails and triumphs with!

My musical world involves performing with the San Francisco Opera, Symphony, Ballet and smaller classical venues, so I hope that you appreciate classical music . I am also a great fan of jazz and Latin music.

My close friends know that I love to cook and have a passion for and collect wine. Dinner parties are quite common chez moi! I believe that gustatory pleasure is one of the great gifts in life! Enjoying life on a sensual level is essential. I enjoy travel (love Paris and NYC) . I travel at least once a year to France (Burgundy and the south) and I speak enough French to stay out of trouble :-). I am currently studying French at "The French Class"

Being a single dad for 15 years and launching my son on to college and now graduate school has been my greatest and most rewarding adventure. I believe that being a father has been the "centering" experience of my life and taught me a lot about patience, communication and to appreciate the larger view.

I am holding out for the real deal. I am not interested in casual romance. I am truly seeking my muse. I would rather be single than settle. Yes, my expectations are high and you embrace that, because you have ideals and dreams that you are not willing to jettison just to be with "anyone". The things I find attractive in a partner are creativity, great intelligence, love of all things sensual and passion for life.
What I’m doing with my life
I am always striving to do better, whether that is in my professional life or my other interests (and there are a lot!) I want to have a positive impact on those around me and in the world I navigate through. I enjoy giving back to my community.
I’m really good at
Listening, encouraging others, recognizing talent. I am a great cheer leader and thoughtful confidant. I am also a very good cook and you will never be disappointed in my wine selection! I started drawing from the figure 6 years ago and I absolutely love it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The New Yorker, books on Art, Jazz and classical. music. I love good, flavorful food. I am an excellent cook and get annoyed with expensive restaurants that can't produce. I have a nice wine collection
The six things I could never do without
Stove top espresso maker
Art supplies
Time for reflection ( I suppose that is not a THING)
Clarinet(s)
A good bottle of wine
Journal
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Trying to find a good reed
On a typical Friday night I am
Out to dinner with friends, playing a concert or content to watch a good film
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 46–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you think cooking together, sharing a glass of Burgundy and making out while the risotto cooks is a great way to spend an evening,