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trumuseseeker

60 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:17am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I have noticed that in these profiles men like to talk about their outer lives , their accomplishments, their STUFF and women tend to talk a lot more about their inner lives, where the heart lies. Maybe this is the big disparity, the reason the overlap or interlap between men and women is so difficult to find? Well, I am still going to tell you about my outer life , but despite my brain which always seems to be operating on over drive, I mostly live from my heart - which does get me into trouble - I admit. Even though I do not write as much as I used to, I am a poet first and foremost and it is the music between the lines of our everyday lives and accomplishments that I find the most intriguing. I am looking for that person who lives and loves in that intersection of mind and spirit.

I consider myself fortunate. I have a great/going business that I love, a dual career as a professional classical musician, good health, good friends and opportunities to travel. The only thing that is missing is a great partner to share my travels, travails and triumphs with!

My musical world involves performing with the San Francisco Opera, Symphony, Ballet and smaller classical venues, so I hope that you appreciate classical music . I am also a great fan of jazz and Latin music. I am a complete ignoramous when it comes to popular music, but i am willing to be educated if you have good taste.

My close friends know that I love to cook and have a passion for and collect wine. Dinner parties are quite common chez moi! I am an omnivore, so if you are a vegetarian I respect your choice, but you are not a good match for me.

I enjoy travel (love Paris and NYC) . I traveled many times to France in the last few years and to Italy this past summer. I have never been to Hawaii and I am planning to spend a week of just swimming and hiking there this summer. I would love to have a snorkeling companion :-)

I love Art, going to museums, going to gallery openings. I always hit the local museums when I travel. I was a docent at the SF MOMA for about 5 years. I collect art on a small scale ,concentrating on artists from the Bay Area. I draw from the figure regularly. Drawing is my 2nd passion and something I hope to expand on if I can ever retire!

Being a single dad for 15 years and launching my son on to college ,graduate school and a career has been my greatest and most rewarding adventure. I believe that being a father has been the "centering" experience of my life and taught me a lot about patience, communication and to appreciate the larger view.

Enough about me, who are you? If you have a big brain, a quick laugh and a beautiful smile I am already in your pocket. If you can recognize and appreciate the difference between Monet and Manet we are friends, If you have raised children, have an expansive heart and know how to love generously, we might just be right for each other. If you have pictures of yourself on a motorcycle, please leave now!

I enjoy meeting new people and I do enjoy dating, but ultimately I am truly seeking my muse. I would rather be single than settle. The things I find attractive in a partner are creativity, great intelligence, love of all things sensual and passion for life.. And above all, love. live and laugh!
What I’m doing with my life
I am always striving to do better, whether that is in my professional life or my other interests (and there are a lot!) I want to have a positive impact on those around me and in the world I navigate through. I enjoy giving back to my community.
I’m really good at
Listening, encouraging others, recognizing talent. I am a great cheer leader and thoughtful confidant. I am also a very good cook and you will never be disappointed in my wine selection! I started drawing from the figure 8 years ago and I absolutely love it.. You need to be OK with me drawing regularly from a live model
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The New Yorker, books on Art, Jazz and classical. music. I love good, flavorful food. I am an excellent cook and get annoyed with expensive restaurants that can't produce. I have a nice wine collection
The six things I could never do without
Stove top espresso maker
Art supplies
Time for reflection ( I suppose that is not a THING)
Clarinet(s)
A good bottle of wine
Journal
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Trying to find a good reed
On a typical Friday night I am
Out to dinner with friends, playing a concert or content to watch a good film
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 47–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
. If you think cooking together, sharing a glass of Burgundy and making out while the risotto cooks is a great way to spend an evening, You take care of yourself and are in reasonably good shape. If you are a Cancer, Pisces, Capricorn or Scorpio so much the better!