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truwildblue

39 F Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:15pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Someone real, looking to inspire, be inspired, and find real connection.

ME: Easy-going first, intense next. Well-traveled, educated, thoughtful. Easy to smile, easy to laugh. Self-aware. Happy. Conscious. Athletic. Resourceful. Graceful. Devil’s advocate. Zesty. (Yep, I said zesty.)

YOU: Intelligent, kind, expressive, secure, enigmatic. Generous in spirit and affection.

WE: Love our work but love our families and each other more; cook together often; complement each others’ active lifestyle but round it out with quiet time together and apart; understand that the right relationship requires nurturing; minimize drama; manage to maintain our own existing friendships and to gently merge our social lives; challenge as well as inspire each other; find 'fun' in mundane activities; become each others’ 'rock'; give back to the community; explore together geographically, philosophically, emotionally, sensually, gastronomically and intellectually; love each other fiercely.

Want to turn me on? Show me you are kind and thoughtful and engaged in your own reality; intentional in all aspects of your life (or at least have consciously prioritized), surround yourself with amazing friends, and have a healthy outlook on whatever in your past has shaped you into the man you are today. Let’s explore/conquer today, and do absolutely nothing (time well wasted!) tomorrow….or vice versa…I don’t care.
What I’m doing with my life
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Besides work: Tabata, Yoga, Tennis, Tango lessons [Profile update - I've put Tango lessons on hold until I find my 'strong lead'], triathlon training, enjoying every minute of an amazing Chicago summer, spending quality time with quality people - which usually involves red wine and delicious food.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Baking and grilling. Homemade yummies always seem to brighten things up.

Added at the suggestion of a friend's boyfriend: holding your beer for you, without warming it up.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm often told that my laughter is distinctive and infectious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Before it was taken off the air, my favorite Sunday morning activity included staying in bed and listening to Acoustic Sunrise. I love salty and sweet. Pandora radio. A hot coffee on a cold morning. Seeing the sun rise when running on Lakeshore. (The payoff for the early wake-up.) Campfire stories and s'mores. Patio dining/socializing. The company of dear old friends; unexpected chemistry with a new friend.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Trust
A comfortable/clean home setting
Weekend getaways
Human Interaction
Physical affection
______________________?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next journey.
I've been lucky to have experienced some new horizons in the last few years, traveling both solo and with friends. Exploring Alaska, the Canadian Rockies, Glacier National Park, the U.K, Spain, Portugal, Ireland, Yosemite, Grand Canyon (at a full moon), Zion National Park, Bryce Canyon, Slovenia, Croatia, Bosnia, Montenegro, Albania, Macedonia, Serbia, Costa Rica, Oahu, and my most recent trip was to play in the fluffy snow in Steamboat Springs, CO. The complete list is long; this considers only the last few years.

Also - grown men on Razor kick scooters. Downtown.
You should message me if
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...you are kind, well adjusted, know who you are and are secure in yourself. You are expressive, enjoy the life that you have created, make the best of situations, are intellectually involved and also emotionally driven. You manage to graciously and simultaneously embody being both driven and content. You have passions in your life that you either want to share with me, or just expose me to. You intentionally surround yourself with good people. Your most proper/chaste kiss can take my breath away. You don't mind me playing devil's advocate from all angles - and you give it back to me as appropriate. You'll play 20 questions with me just because it's fun. You are imperfect. And perfectly aware of it. You're some or none of these things but get why I'd type this paragraph. Your first email to me is more than 4 words and cleverly shows me that you've read this far....