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39 • Chicago, IL • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 33–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 2:09am
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and dislikes cats
ME: Easy-going first, intense next. Well-traveled, educated, thoughtful. Easy to smile, easy to laugh. Self-aware. Happy. Conscious. Athletic. Resourceful. Graceful. Devil’s advocate. Zesty. (Yep, I said zesty.)
YOU: Intelligent, kind, expressive, secure, enigmatic. Generous in spirit and affection.
WE: Love our work but love our families and each other more; cook together often; complement each others’ active lifestyle but round it out with quiet time together and apart; understand that the right relationship requires nurturing; minimize drama; manage to maintain our own existing friendships and to gently merge our social lives; challenge as well as inspire each other; find 'fun' in mundane activities; become each others’ 'rock'; give back to the community; explore together geographically, philosophically, emotionally, sensually, gastronomically and intellectually; love each other fiercely.
Want to turn me on? Show me you are kind and thoughtful and engaged in your own reality; intentional in all aspects of your life (or at least have consciously prioritized), surround yourself with amazing friends, and have a healthy outlook on whatever in your past has shaped you into the man you are today. Let’s explore/conquer today, and do absolutely nothing (time well wasted!) tomorrow….or vice versa…I don’t care.
Added at the suggestion of a friend's boyfriend: holding your beer for you, without warming it up.
A comfortable/clean home setting
I've been lucky to have experienced some new horizons in the last few years, traveling both solo and with friends. Exploring Alaska, the Canadian Rockies, Glacier National Park, the U.K, Spain, Portugal, Ireland, Yosemite, Grand Canyon (at a full moon), Zion National Park, Bryce Canyon, Slovenia, Croatia, Bosnia, Montenegro, Albania, Macedonia, Serbia, Costa Rica, Oahu, and my most recent trip was to play in the fluffy snow in Steamboat Springs, CO. The complete list is long; this considers only the last few years.
Also - grown men on Razor kick scooters. Downtown.
...and you should probably NOT message me if...I was past puberty when you were born. While the attention from the younger set is flattering, realistically, we're not looking for the same things from each other.
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