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52 Bethlehem, PA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 44–60
  • Near me
  • For casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 13
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
A little extra
Taurus, and it matters a lot
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
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Married and in an open relationship...not in a bad relationship and living open relationship. I'm told I'm a good guy to be with.

I work a day job. Maintain a home and extended family and pets. Free time is not my middle name. But, if you don't try to drive me nuts, I can get together 3-4 times a month. And I mean it about driving me nuts.

I don't want this to sound angry or conceited. I'm a very average guy that is perhaps a bit too trusting of a girl's line of crap, the crap being defined as getting grief about being married once we start dating.

I've gone to great lengths to provide a "more than FWB" environment that has pretty much gone unappreciated, so don't get your panties in a bunch when I tell you anymore I'm in it for the sex. Too many have been on that high ground only to be the most selfish, manipulative creatures on Earth.

"Oh that's so's all you men ever want". Bull! I know what you have to bring to the table to make a relationship happen and pfffft, most of you ain't got it and taking you to the casino or the beach ain't gonna fix it. You be a friend, and a lover. Then show me you can manage a household and have a career that pays more than minimum wage and you might get my attention.

Without naming names, there are a few of you out there that understand, and despite your well-intentioned profile just want want a clean, decent guy on a part-time basis. Believe me, that's a lot more palatable than the romance novel crap people write here.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
More than I let on to most people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Restraining myself. I'm trying to give it up for just plain not caring.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm going to say bad gas and cussing.
Apparently, I left off ugly and stupid. That shows me for going out on a date. I'm guessing the next date will get balding and fat covered.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like movies that you have to "pay attention" to enjoy. I have a special place in my heart for the old B&W flicks.

I like Dire Straits, Pink Floyd and the Eagles.

I have a job that takes me on the road, and eating out seems to be something that kills. I think most anything made at home is better than eating out.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This "Special Blend" option doesn't seem all that special. I have to apologize to those poor ladies that get put in my "quiver" by virtue of my very deliberately short list of answers.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On here...for a time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Someday soon I will share some of the things I have been careful not to shate openly.
You should message me if
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If you have answered that you are open to a married guy in an open relationship.

If you have answered that "Yes" you have slept with a guy on a first date. Not that I expect it, just not looking for the type that never did.

You have answered less than 200 questions from here. It seems to blur the results when you answer more regardless if you say it's irrelevant.

If you have a full, busy life and appreciate someone making time for you.

You don't live in a major metropolitan area, especially by choice.

If you don't have a red dot by your name showing that you sit on your computer every night going "Meh, not good enough!"