I don't live in Bethlehem, but I'm close.
I work a day job. Maintain a home and extended family and pets. Free time is not my middle name. But, if you don't try to drive me nuts, I can get together 3-4 times a month. And I mean it about driving me nuts.
I don't want this to sound angry or conceited. I'm a very average guy that is perhaps a bit too trusting of a girl's line of crap, the crap being defined as getting grief about being married once we start dating.
I've gone to great lengths to provide a "more than FWB" environment that has pretty much gone unappreciated, so don't get your panties in a bunch when I tell you anymore I'm in it for the sex. Too many have been on that high ground only to be the most selfish, manipulative creatures on Earth.
"Oh that's so sleazy....it's all you men ever want". Bull! I know what you have to bring to the table to make a relationship happen and pfffft, most of you ain't got it and taking you to the casino or the beach ain't gonna fix it. You be a friend, and a lover. Then show me you can manage a household and have a career that pays more than minimum wage and you might get my attention.
Without naming names, there are a few of you out there that understand, and despite your well-intentioned profile just want want a clean, decent guy on a part-time basis. Believe me, that's a lot more palatable than the romance novel crap people write here.