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53 F Potsdam, NY

My Details

Last Online
Mar 7
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a mature acting woman with a youthful heart. I am looking for a special someone to bring a light to my eyes and smiles in my heart. What I want from a relationship is that which can only be given, not bought or sold or even taken. That would be love, respect and friendship. I don't need to be fixed or rescued, just a partner in crime who enjoys life without the need to have power over someone.

Some thing I enjoy is capturing the beauty of the world through the lens of my camera. Football gets me jumping up and down and giving advice to the teams, which they of course, totally ignore. Other interests including hiking trails, gardening, travel, museums and learning new things.

People typically find me very easy to get along with, easy to talk to and nonjudgmental. I do not smoke and only drink occasionally. I am not a jealous person and do not tolerate that from others. I keep my word as I believe trust is earned and kept. I support myself and have a full time job.

One of the hard parts of these descriptions is will people believe you as you describe yourself, well if you have gotten this far in reading hopefully the sincerity comes through.
My philosophy in life is do no harm, the only power one has is over ones own self and judge not others as you have not walked in their shoes. These are what I live by and hoping there is a man who appreciates that kind of woman.

I laugh easily, smile often and try not to sweat the small stuff. I do care about social issues but I am not involved in any organizations as they often take on their own power and control. I would rather make sure my own corner of the world is a good place to live. There are so many things to see and learn out there in the world and I am curious about all of it.

It is important to me that the other person be able to hold a conversation. No silent types who really have nothing to say or won't say it either way. If your replies are only a few words or one sentence long then my interest will die really fast. However I could care less about spelling. Looking for a special man who is looking for more than a pretty face. The type of man who would be interested in me is looking for sincerity, humor, honesty and a bit twisted sense of humor. A man who finds that woman beautiful no matter what.

The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.

Does any one else every feel bad for clicking "not interested" like it is a personal statement about the other person. I don't really see regularly crossing the Canadian border as a realistic regular event for romance.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work full time for a nonprofit agency working with families in crisis. Developing my photography skills and appreciating life and the beauty around me. Oh and chasing my grandchildren when I get the chance.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, cooking and being a friend. There are lots of things I enjoy doing but cannot claim to be really good at such as photography and craft projects.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Is my smile, looking people in the eye and that I sincerely listen to what someone has to say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movie types I like are action/adventure, romantic comedies, movies about people, murder mysteries and westerns. I do not watch horror or creepy stuff, too much imagination on my part.
I used to read a lot but less so now. There is not a lot of shows on TV that I watch, mostly Criminal Minds, Big Bang Theory and Football.
For music it is classic rock, some pop, some country and blues. Especially if it tells a story or you can dance to it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My camera, my family and friends, my sense of humor, my car, my mind and a job. Not always in that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Taking care of those who are special to me and things to do to make life interesting.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Thinking about what I need to do to relax and make life more interesting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am not dead inside or out.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 48–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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Curious who this random and interesting person is...perhaps you would just like someone to chat with pass the evening. Who knows what lurks behind door 3.