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trythecara

30 F Denver, CO

I’m looking for

  • Bi guys and girls
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:39am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a queer, polyamorous, nudist, atheist, socialist, southern, INFP, feminist, non-op trans* girl living in Denver.

Queer/trans* folk of all forms ride free. Cis/het men will have to be generous to get my attention.


I like lots of things, especially photography, making films, playing cello, engineering, making weird digital art, playing/collecting video games, math, swimming, climbing, playing foursquare, and cooking. I am also partial to old cars and good beer. I like consuming fine consumables. I would, someday, like to live on a sailboat... and, be a professional wrestler with a shiny costume and awesome pyrotechnics. Summer is my favorite season. Serenity is my favorite emotional state.

I have a lot of love to give, and I have a hard time separating my love into categories; consequently, there are not many people I love as friends that I would not take (or have not taken) as lovers.

I am here for casual dating/play partners/sexploits and friends/partners in crime, but I am open to whatever. I love meeting new people! There are so many pretty people around here, and I just want to take you all home with me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
StArtist. Purity and defilement, creation and destruction, restraint and abandon, patience and recklessness... everything in moderation. Well, usually. :) I try my best to be responsibly irresponsible. Living alone, getting by as best I can, and meeting wonderful new people in the process.

I am not interested in talking online for ages and having nothing ever come of it, nor am I interested in camming or phoning with strangers. I am here for physical connections.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cello. Computers. Circuit analysis. Cinematography. Cimple statements.

Queer sex... it's the only kind I have.

Taking amazing showers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My tattoos, my hair, my boots, or my various '80s/'90s t-shirts.

I flare my nostrils a lot without being aware that I'm doing it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a.) Works of Tolkien, Lovecraft, Poe, Umberto Eco, Dante, Milton, Homer... religious/magical/occult texts and grimoires, folk lore anthologies (specifically ghost/pirate legends), the MYST series, erotica, trans/queer literature, fictional history/reference books.

b.) The Silent Flute, The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly, Star Wars (pre-1997), Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade, Batman, Alien series, Back to the Future, Amadeus, The Name of the Rose, Die Hard, Spaceballs, Office Space, older wushu films, Kill Bill Volume 2, daikaiju films, Pee-Wee's Big Adventure, Lord of the Rings, Death to Smoochy, The Goonies, Riki Oh: The Story or Ricky, Akira, Robocop 1 & 2, Cecil B. Demented, Saved!, Living in Oblivion, Sweeney Todd, Shortbus (mmm), Fantastic Planet, Transformers: The Movie, Blade Runner, Silent Hill, Finding Forrester, 12 Monkeys, Brazil, Machete, Red Dragon, Silence of the Lambs, Hannibal, Pirates of the Caribbean, Truman Show, Velvet Goldmine, Ghostbusters, Idiocracy, Trading Places, Troop Beverly Hills... lots of different stuff.

c.) Broad City, Game of Thrones, Orange is the New Black, Lost, Deep Space Nine, TNG, The Twilight Zone, X-Files, Home Movies, Bob's Burgers, Transformers, Adventure Time, The Prisoner, House (first three seasons), Weeds, Law and Order, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Legend of Korra, Rocko's Modern Life, True Blood, anything with Gordon Ramsay, Get Smart, Dragnet, Alfred Hitchcock Presents, Sliders, Hey Dude, He-Man/She-Ra, Salute Your Shorts, Double Dare, Legends of the Hidden Temple, Guts, Nick Arcade, MMPR, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, Batman: The Animated Series, X-Men, The Critic, The Simpsons (early seasons), WCW Monday Nitro, Ranma 1/2, Dragon Ball.

d.) '80s pop, New Wave, Dark Wave (love Depeche Mode), '60s/'70s hippie music, glam rock, disco, early hip-hop, prog/speed metal, ambient, new age, almost all things classical (especially early-mid 20th century Russian and French compositions), Chinese classical, other eastern folk music... Some more current artists that I like are The Flaming Lips, The Magnetic Fields, CocoRosie, Shiny Toy Guns, The xx, Sea Wolf, The Knife, Darkside, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Puscifer, Sigur Rós, Cake, VNV Nation, Sonata Arctica, Lana Del Ray, and Rhapsody of Fire.

e.) All things seafood related (I am a pescetarian). Chinese, Japanese, Thai, Vietnamese, Cambodian, Laotian, Indian, Mediterranean, Ethiopian, Mexican, Cuban, pub fare, Southern US, soul food, Cajun, Creole, French, Italian... I don't know why people bother listing Italian. Who doesn't like Italian food? Ice cream, frozen yogurt, frozen custard, gelato, snow cream, soft serve, sherbet, soft serve gelato, frozen snow custard, ice yogurt...

f.) Zelda (especially the original and Majora's Mask), Sonic the Hedgehog (1, 2, 3/&Knuckles, CD, Rush), Mega Man (1-9), Super Mario Brothers (1, 2, 3, All Stars, World, 64, New), NiGHTS into Dreams, TMNT (II, III, IV), Tony Hawk's Pro Skater (2, 3, 4, HD), Mortal Kombat (1, II, UMK3, 4, Deception), Street Fighter II, Super Metroid, Samurai Shodown, DDR (Extreme is my favorite arcade mix), Pop'n Music, IIDX, MYST, Riven, Ikaruga, Radiant Silvergun, Super Smash Brothers Melee, Soul Caliber 1 & 2, REZ, Contra, Dragon Warrior, Kid Icarus, Ghosts 'n Goblins, Punch Out, Columns, Strider, Double Dragon, Golden Axe series, Castlevania, Braid, Limbo, Ms. Pac Man, Galaga, Rogue Leader, Resident Evil 4, Unreal Tournament, Goldeneye, Perfect Dark, Worms, Lode Runner: The Legend Returns, MDK, Test Drive Unlimited, Star Wars Jedi Power Battles, Eternal Champions: Challenge from the Darkside, Eternal Darkness: Sanity's Requiem, Marathon 2: Durandal, StarCraft, DOOM and DOOM II, Portal, Left 4 Dead, Life Force, Prince of Persia: The Sands of Time... basically everything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've always thought this was a dumb question, but I will oblige y'all and not make snarky comments about oxygen and all that:

• Queers
• Coconut oil
• A TI-89 Titanium (that fucker really saved my academic career)
• Art
• Friendship
• The sun (maybe I partially lied about not making snarky comments, but I really do love that sweet vitamin D)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Queer issues. Music. Anarchy. Technomancy. Debauchery. Porn. Sex work. People's darkest secrets. Wondering where all my underwear went.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably at home making art. When I'm feeling a little more adventurous, I like bars, play parties, concerts, other hedonistic endeavors... naked baby oil twister? I tend to be pretty low key.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
As mentioned above, I am a non-op transgender woman. This means that A.) I have a dick, and B.) that I have no intention of changing that. Still unclear? Google that shit.

I have chronic depression and anxiety that I manage with a combination of prozac, coffee, and weed.

I hate talking on the phone.

I'm super kinky. I am also a slut, but please keep in mind that that does not mean I will automatically want to sleep with you.

I had an orgy for my 30th birthday.

I collect Monster in My Pockets.

I often do not wear underwear with tights.

I look up nudist recreation anytime I visit somewhere new and usually make time for it if it exists wherever I'm going.
You should message me if
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You want to sit in the same room and be social introverts together.

You like lighthearted, hedonistic, silly people.

You are talented in some way.

You want to make movies.

You want to go out for coffee or hookah or something else to imbibe.

You want to stay up late and talk about things.

You want to play video games with me (I really need people to play Smash Brothers with).

You want to pay me to do pornography.

You haven't already messaged once. If I didn't respond to your first message, I wasn't interested. Sorry!

You want to help push my limits.