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56 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 22
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly vegan
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has cats

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My self-summary
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I'm intelligent, committed to social causes, and artistic, especially music. I respect, admire and desire assertive women. I like the give and take and mutual respect of a real relationship. I have a big heart.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm teaching social sciences at BMCC; and training to become a licensed Gestalt psychoanalyst (LP). I love being back in NYC.
I’m really good at
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Singing musical theatre and art songs, especially the more left wing 30s-40s stuff (Kurt Weill-Langston Hughes Street Scene is one of my favorites), but 30s - 60s in general. And when I'm doing Reichian therapy, as the practitioner, I get into the zone. Also karaoke--I love being a ham, singing Astaire, Sinatra, Elvis, 60s songs
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm funny
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movie: Butterflies are Free, High Noon, Christ in Concrete, The Gangster
Books, reading history books, Daniel Fuchs' Brooklyn Novels, Montaigne, The Brothers Karamazov, anything by Tolstoy, Dostoevsky, Melville, etc.
Music: classical, opera, musical theatre.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music: Singing and playing some instrument
Old Movies
Vegan food
Internal Martial Arts
Left Politics
History and Theory
Acting Lessons
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
psychology and politics
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well, every other Friday night, I'm busy with another Gestalt training at the Institute. But the other Friday nights, I'm free! :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Let's go slow on this one.
You should message me if
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You like what you see and you want to date. And if we make an initial date, you commit to showing up. If you get cold feet and want to bail, you'll want to let me know at least the day before--not the morning of.

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