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25 • M • Cambridge, MA
- Last Online
- Jul 28
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Graduated from university
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Likes dogs and likes cats
To pay for that habit, I write software. I work with a lot of really smart people, and the work I do helps improve people’s days in a tiny way (perhaps even yours?), which is pretty cool. It’s almost entirely unlike rowing (duh), since it’s very quiet, not at all physical, and extremely self-guided.
In my remaining time, and while I’m thinking and writing software, I’m all over music: discovering new music, enjoying old favorites, and going to shows and festivals. Most recently, I saw The Kooks, and before that Arkells. I’ve also been to all the Boston Callings, which have been super fun.
Making awful, obscure, or generally irritating puns.
Having a YouTube link available for any situation.
The amount of milk I drink.
My occasional use of gratuitously large words where maybe smaller ones would do.
My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy and The Suburbs trade off as my favorite albums. Other than Kanye and Arcade Fire, some other stuff I can think of right now includes The Kooks, The Chain Gang of 1974, Tokyo Police Club, Metric,and Deadmau5. There's a lot beyond that, too.
I love food, especially in quantity. That has proved heartbreaking as I have to maintain my weight. I'm pretty willing to try new things.
I wish I were more literary, but I do at least end up reading a lot of long-form stuff online, kind of like a link magpie, ending up in places like The Awl, The Atlantic, The Verge/Polygon. Lots of definite articles, really, and just about anything that gets linked from Metafilter.
• My bike: The only way to get around town, and it's fun even.
• Milk: The best thing to drink.
• Music in general: Generic, yes, but it's kind of a big thing.
• A keen sense of irony: The world is a strange and funny place, and it's wonderful to notice (and occasionally contribute to) how unexpected it can be.
• Rowing: Physical, demanding, keeps me grounded on something.
…whether the fact that I tend to act in line with the expectations of masculinity also reinforces harmful gender norms.
…the ice cream sundae I’m going to have when I go off lightweight.
I have a soft spot for some really trashy electronic music.
- Guys who like guys
- Ages 21–28
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
…you noticed something off about my form in my profile pic.
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