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ttopes

42 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 18
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Genuine. Grounded, but not afraid to take risks. I've lived in a bunch of great places, including DC, San Francisco, Vermont and Russia. Grad school in International Affairs brought me back to NY, where I was born and raised. I love to hike and go camping. I tend to gravitate toward people who have taken the road less traveled, who have integrity and a dry, self-deprecating sense of humor. My friends are like family and I'm very grateful for that. I'd like to meet someone who has their feet firmly planted on the ground, but doesn't take life too seriously and is comfortable getting outta here when the need arises. Someone who knows that it's worth trying to live in the moment, even if it's not always easy to do. Someone who can laugh at themselves (and others...). Someone with whom flirting will never get old.
What I’m doing with my life
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Finding humor in most things. I work in corporate philanthropy. All my prior jobs were in the non-profit sector. Now that I am working for The Man, I feel confident saying that it's more fun to give the money away than it is to raise it. A couple of years ago I started going to dance class again and now I'm performing with a group I helped found.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people who don't know me feel comfortable
Getting in some really good one-liners
Naming that tune in three notes
Galaga and Ms. Pac-Man
Not giving up
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Pee-wee's Big Adventure, The Wall, The Goodbye Girl, The Usual Suspects, Empire Strikes Back, High Anxiety, Bring It On, Thin Red Line, Close Encounters of the Third Kind, Ghostbusters (and pretty much anything else with Bill Murray), This is Spinal Tap, Contact, The China Syndrome, A History of Violence, Fame, Broadway Danny Rose, You Can Count on Me, The Hebrew Hammer, Grosse Pointe Blank, Broadcast News, Garden State

TV: Louie, The Wire, Scrubs, Arrested Development, LOST, Twin Peaks, Flight of the Conchords, The Office, The Colbert Report, Breaking Bad, Bored to Death, Homeland, The Larry Sanders Show

Books: The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay (Michael Chabon), Master and Margarita (Mikhail Bulgakov), My Life (Golda Meir), Omnivore's Dilemma (Michael Pollan), In Retrospect (Robert McNamara), James and the Giant Peach (Roald Dahl)

Music: Wilco, Regina Spektor, Beastie Boys, MIA, Stevie Wonder, Colin Hay, Genesis, Al Green, Jay-Z, Steely Dan, David Gray, Ok Go, Girl Talk

Food: dark chocolate, arnold palmers
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) diet coke
2) music
3) passport
4) a dry sense of humor
5) parks not surrounded by tall buildings
6) dancing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
White powdery sand and clear blue water.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I shot the sheriff.
You should message me if
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You're turned on by intelligence and someone who's not afraid to tell it like it is (in a very good-natured way, of course).

You like the idea of really getting to know someone and letting them really get to know you back.

You agree there is not much better than waking up next to someone you adore.