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26 F Saint Louis, MO

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Last Online
Yesterday – 11:54am
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Life is an adventure. I'm looking for people to come adventuring with me and to take me adventuring with them. Let's go explore and create.

I love St. Louis. The longer I stay, the harder I fall.

I'm goofy, weird, and awkward. You'll need a sense of humor and an open mind. I'm passionate and usually quite forward, but I also love to listen and learn. I am greedy for experience and laughter and sunshine and cool nights and magical people, but I have learned to appreciate stillness and routine.

If your idea of a great way to approach me is to tell me I'm beautiful or simply say "what's up girl," please take the remainder of the time necessary to fully read my profile and step. Your. Game. Up.

I identify as queer, not quite bi, but there's no option for that. Lame. I'll put this near the top, so you might actually read it: not interested in just a threesome. Move along.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm trying to make the most of it. I think it's working.

I work for a small local non-profit and get to put my passion, creativity, and wild ideas to good use.

I'm trying to ride bikes a lot more.

I helped start SLLAW: St. Louis Lady Arm Wrestlers. Ladies' arm wrestling is sort of like burlesque and roller derby and late 80s WWF wrestling all in one. According to The Guardian: "Ladies' arm wrestling is difficult to categorize: an evening could be described equally as radical performance art, a burlesque variation on amateur boxing, or as a riot grrrl fundraiser with a costume competition attached." The good people with SLLAW think it's exactly the kind of Saturday night brouhaha St. Louis has been waiting for. So if you're into some awesome lady empowerment rolled into a big, theatrical hot mess of a production, let me know. All funds raised at these events go directly to local women's charities.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Mixing drinks and decorating my apartment. Telling stories. Eating all of my vegetables. Mediating conflict. Cooking and baking. Saying no to pants. Being a feminist killjoy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my tattoos. I also get a lot of comments on my smile, sense of style, and that I smell really good. I take up a lot of space - literally and figuratively - so also that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love food and I love making food for people I love. I'll try anything once, usually twice. I host a monthly choose-your-own-adventure supper club and it's really fun.

Music: I can't pin my tastes down to any particular style or genre. I really only listen to NPR and KDHX, so I have no idea what's supposed to be cool right now and I am fully aware that makes me sound like an asshole. I don't trust anyone who can sit still while listening to James Brown.

I love to read. Sometimes I have mini panic attacks because there are so many books and so little time. I can't pick a favorite, ever. I recently joined a YA book club and that's neat. It's not a book, but I love the Utne Reader. I really enjoyed the Song of Ice and Fire series and will hardcore nerd-out about it if you want. Harry Potter always and forever and ever amen. I enjoy a lot of non-fiction, too. Right now I'm reading some essays on Catholic theology from a feminist prospective. Biographies are fascinating. My favorite so far has been Priscilla Presley.

There is a pretty good chance I haven't seen most of the movies you consider awesome, so don't be surprised when I say "oh, I haven't seen that, but I'd love to." Things that come to mind: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Closer, Almost Famous, Romeo + Juliet, Stop Making Sense, Pan's Labyrinth, The Departed, Star Wars IV-VI, Francis Ha, O Brother Where Art Thou, Heathers, Gone with the Wind.

I don't have cable and haven't for many years, but I really loved The Food Network and HGTV. I really enjoy Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead, The X Files, OITNB, House of Cards, and American Horror Story. Oh, I am a dedicated member of the Leslie Knope fan club. If it's a political or crime drama, I'll probably like it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family. Ice cubes. Pizza. Cardigans. NPR. Coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can make the world a better place. Community. Feminism as more than just white ladies fighting for the right to choose. The politics of privilege. Fucking with the status quo. Colors. Becoming a supervillain.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unwinding from the past week, whether that's at home alone, at home with a few people, or out with friends grabbing a drink or two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Lil Wayne's voice makes me want to take my clothes off. This concerns me.

My ultimate goal in life is to make all of my neighbors assume I am a witch. And also possibly be a witch.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you're into passionate, eccentric, and slightly neurotic ladies. If you'd like a friend to explore with. If you want to ride bikes or go for a walk. If you're open to being challenged.

Also, please let me know if you are interested in SLLAW. We are looking for:
Stage hands/Behind the scene players
Promoters (merch, photogs, video people, web design, PR, groupies, etc)

Performers are limited to self-identifying females, however, those who are male-identified are welcome to fill any other positions.

Seriously. You wanna get in on this. Trust me.