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41 Santa Clara, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 25
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Post grad
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a passionate, fun, fit, free spirit, with an adventurous and playful heart.

Online dating is tricky. I'm real, and don't want to waste my time with bullshit. Being with someone boils down to CHEMISTRY and the "IT" factor. Unfortunately, chemistry is virtually impossible to discover through messages and "first impression photos." Nothing is more powerful than a good old fashioned face to face meeting that tells whether or not you are going to have a crazy, wicked, make your heart flutter, not sure why it works, but it does connection. This online venue just opens up a radius of meeting someone that might otherwise be limited.

Disclosure: I will NEVER respond to DTF, or "send me Me more pics"... Let's get real.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Having fun
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...turning the stress off, and relaxing to maintain a balance.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! height. (I'm 5'10" barefoot, but I love to wear high heels:) A girl's got to do, what a girl LOVES to do. I also get comments about my eyes, but please don't spell it eyezz.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Tribe called Quest, Damien Rice, David Gray, sublime, mary j, bad religion, Ellie Golding, Odessa, Dillion Francis, billie holiday, roots, nina simon, beastie boys. It really depends on my mood.
Love music!! All genres.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The ocean
Kisses from my girls,
My friends and family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... how many times I can hit the snooze alarm before I actually have to get up.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Entertaining friends, dancing all night long, game night with my girls, or curled up on the couch watching a great flick.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I got my first cavity when I was 35.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are smart, sexy, sensual and strong...inside and out:)