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34 F Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:55am
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
I moved to Chicago 10 years ago from Hawaii. I honestly didn’t intend to stay here so long – but come on – Chicago’s great! (Yes – greater than Hawaii in my opinion). I like to think I’m a pretty lively person with an active social life and plenty of fun things going on.
I equally enjoy introspective conversations on intellectual topics, such the unnatural social construction of inner cities, as well as in-depth discussions about the best taco in Chicago, or the best Simpsons or MST3K episode.
What I’m doing with my life
I work for a wonderful international nonprofit that allows me to travel from time to time, which is great! I work out, hang out with friends frequently, travel, drink wine and good beer, and sometimes eat Chipotle (I feel I need it about 3-4 times per year). I consider going out to dinner my favorite hobby (to non-Chipotle restaurants). I have been saying I want to learn how to play the guitar for about 10 years now, but I think I really want to learn how to play the piano. This summer I am playing beach volleyball again, which is super fun! I recently found out my softball skills are subpar at best. (See photo).
I’m really good at
The analytical section of the GRE, insight and introspection, remembering the lyrics of 90's rap songs, and navigating public transit in any city.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably that I am short. People also are always super surprised to find out I am 34, I guess I look younger. Or people are trying to be nice?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am going to follow the lead of my dear friend, who recently shared her profile with me, to say - this stuff doesn't really matter all that much. Basically, I care that you read (maybe not Atlas Shrugged as your favorite book) and like music (maybe not Nickelback). And love food. Other than that - it's all good.

I'll keep my responses brief:

Books: I love reading – there really needs to be Book It! program for adults (books + pizza – who needs anything else in life?)
Currently I’m reading the Warmth of Other Suns (it’s awesome), and I just finished the Divergent series (not as awesome).

Movies: I just watched Obvious Child (amazing), and watched Orange is the New Black. Kill Bill is currently my favorite movie

Music: I miss the 90’s for the music alone. (1994. Best albums ever).

Food: This list is far to extensive to type out.
The six things I could never do without
1. Family and friends
2. Public radio
3. Red wine
4. Open mindedness and attempts at general kindness
5. Books
6. Google maps
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Methods to escape potential disaster scenarios. I read a book once about people who are more likely to survive disasters, and one characteristic is they have a plan for disaster survival in most situations. I think I could probably I could survive a plane crash. (Happy to share strategies with you).
On a typical Friday night I am
This is quite varied in the summer: Karaoke, dinner with friends, the gym then a movie at home, a concert, a party, the beach, a festival….
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think I swear too fucking much.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
- You have a positive association with liberalism and feminism.
- You can make me laugh and appreciate great dinners and drinks.
- You don’t vote Republican.
- You have a generally positive outlook on life with a healthy dose of cynicism for laughs.
- I hate to be negative here, but married dudes - stop messaging me. No judgement! Just not for me.