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34 F Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:25pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
**Is anyone going to this event at Lottie's this Friday? Have any of you been to a past event and have any thoughts?**

I like to think I’m a pretty lively person with an active social life and plenty of fun things going on. I equally enjoy introspective conversations on intellectual topics, such the unnatural social construction of inner cities, as well as in-depth discussions about the best video games (disclaimer: this is limited to Nintendo games), or the best Simpsons or MST3K episode. I love wine, reading, volleyball and going out to dinner. I probably also spend an inordinate time watching ridiculous animal videos.

I am looking for something eventually serious with the right person. Someone upbeat and active, social and witty, intelligent and thoughtful --> You: get out of my dreams and into my car.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Karaoke. Finding new places for dinner. Trying to talk the cat into getting a job. (A two income household would be great, Cougar!)

After a process of trial and error, I currently work for a wonderful international organization that allows me to travel from time to time, which is great! I work out, hang out with friends frequently, travel, drink wine and good beer, and sometimes eat Chipotle (I feel I need it about 3-4 times per year).

The trial and error process also applies to my attempts at a wide variety of hobbies and activities to see what sticks, this has included (but is not limited to) ballet, volleyball, tennis, drawing, meditating, boxing classes, guitar, story-telling, etc. What is your fun hobby I can try?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The analytical section of the GRE, insight and introspection, remembering the lyrics of 90's rap songs, finding my friends in large crowds or at the beach and navigating public transit in any city.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not sure, but if I am on the train and reading it's probably that I am shamelessly reacting to whatever is in the book - laughing out loud at the funny things, near tears at sad parts, and horrified looks for the shocking parts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am going to follow the lead of my dear friend, who recently shared her profile with me, to say - this stuff doesn't really matter all that much. Basically, I care that you read (maybe not Atlas Shrugged as your favorite book) and like music (maybe not Nickelback). And love food. Other than that - it's all good.

I'll keep my responses brief:

Books: I love reading – there really needs to be Book It! program for adults (books + pizza – who needs anything else in life?)
I'm currently reading "This is Where I Leave You" and "The Empathy Exams" which is currently describing Morgellons disease which is fascinating!

Movies: I just watched Obvious Child (amazing). Some classic favorites are Kill Bill, Bamboozled, Mean Girls, and any teen movie.

Music: I miss the 90’s for the music alone. (1994. Best albums ever). I also listen to my fair share of old school punk, including some emo/ pop punk.

Food: This list is far to extensive to type out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family and friends
2. Public radio
3. Red wine
4. Open mindedness and attempts at general kindness
5. Books
6. Google maps
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Methods to escape potential disaster scenarios. I read a book once about people who are more likely to survive disasters, and one characteristic is they have a plan for disaster survival in most situations. I think I could probably I could survive a plane crash. (Happy to share strategies with you).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This is quite varied in the summer: Karaoke, dinner with friends, cookouts, parties, etc. Or maybe just the gym then a movie at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I might sometimes call you on the phone instead of texting you. Just like the 1990's.

Also, when I said 'get into my car' earlier, I meant my 'car on the CTA Brown line.' I do not own a car.
You should message me if
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- You have a positive association with liberalism and feminism.
- You can make me laugh and appreciate great dinners and drinks.
- You love karaoke as much as I do.
- You have a generally positive outlook on life with a healthy dose of cynicism for laughs.
- I hate to be negative here, but married dudes - stop messaging me. No judgement! Just not for me. Same deal with suburbs.