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54 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Graduated from Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Poorly), German (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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My career is in tech, but "it doesn't define me," and athletics, singing, theater, and yoga are just some of my passions :) I have lots of family in the area, I am an uncle many times over thanks to my three sisters and cousins, but I have no kids of my own.

Last summer I took my nephews backpacking in Desolation Wilderness, super fun to see it through their eyes, running up every hill to check out the views, jumping off cliffs into snow-fed lakes. I believe in the power of adventures. I've been east to Palmyra (during peaceful times), west to Kashmir, and to many places in between. Grilled fish at the night market, yum.

I have lived on the east coast, midwest, and west coast. I've performed on stage. I sing in the shower and am an easy sleeper. I like haskell, kale, board games, xkcd, and a good burrito from Taqueria Cancun.

I do all the athletic stuff but not in a psycho way. I own a piano, and have friends who can play it. I hope my nieces and nephews inherit a world of opportunity and joy.

My family and friends would describe me as an upbeat, smart, positive, kind, adventurous, sexy man. (Okay, my family might not use that last adjective.)

All the stuff on this profile is true.
What I’m doing with my life
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I write code while reciting Shakespeare in downward dog.
I’m really good at
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Meeting people and remembering them.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People usually hear me coming, often from my laugh, or perhaps I'm singing, or, well, my voice can carry.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Like any self-respecting bleeding-heart liberal, I consume the New York Times and the New Yorker regularly. From the recently read list: 1Q84, The Orphan-Keeper's Son, Ready Player One, Gone Girl, The Snow Leopard, The Martian, Ann Patchett essays, The Boys in the Boat...

The current descendants of prog, e.g., M83, Sirius XMU, I sometimes work to Steve Reich or Arvo Part, and who doesn't love 80's night? I'm listening to more jazz in my car, and singing Verdi and Tchaikovsky in my lessons. Lots of rooms in this house.

I'm somehow always behind on movies and really behind on TV. I've seen some recent movies with zero foreknowledge, to interesting effect: Midnight in Paris, I thought, doesn't this guy realize he's at a costume party? Boyhood, I thought, wow, best casting director ever!

Up for the SF Playhouse, the Marsh, ODC, Berkeley Rep, the symphony, the operaaaah! Secret tip: National Theatre Live at the Kabuki. Did you see Mr. Burns, A Post-Electric Play at ACT?! crazy!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family, cousins, nieces, and nephews
the physicality of . . .
the spirituality of . . .
the joy of creation in engineering and art
the experience of the wider world
the steep part of the curve
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be present, open, and intentional, and how to make changes in a mindful way.
You should message me if
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You are into something geeky, take it seriously, and find the humor in it.