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42 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Yesterday – 9:24pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English, Spanish

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My self-summary
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I am a native of NYC. Rather than proud, I just feel lucky to have been born, raised and still living in such an amazing city. I do like to wander, whether its the streets of my city or the jungle. I have hiked up mountain peaks from Venezuela to Vietnam. I've explored ancient temples and pyramids from Bali to Guatemala. I've swam with sharks in the Galapagos Islands, hand fed pink river dolphins in the Brasilian Amazon and had an anaconda slip right through my hands in Bolivia.

When not off on some adventure around the globe, I like going to museums, parks, tea houses, green markets and ethnic restaurants. Very few people know their way around the boroughs like I do. I even know the location of those hidden waterfalls in Central Park. I also enjoy concerts, sporting events, going to the movies and just being out and about. I live my life like it is an adventure even when hanging around in my own city.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in special investigations. Pressure, long hours but its a living and someone has to do it.

I have two big goals in life. Help as many animals and people as possible. And to travel to as many countries as possible.

Answering absurd questions on OkCupid.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Science, math, geography, reading maps, my job, pushing myself physically and I can also run really fast.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm white. I helped you out with that one. Also, I'm left handed and a big dog often weighs more than I do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Ends of the Earth, The Coming Anarchy, Last Chance to See, Blue Latitudes, The River at the Center of the World, Land of a Thousand Eyes, The Cloud Garden, Balkan Ghosts, Eastward To Tartary, At The Tomb Of The Inflatable Pig, Collapse, The Revenge of Geography, Asia's Cauldron, Andes, Wild Coast, Lost In The Jungle, To a Mountain in Tibet, Where China Meets India, The Heartless Stone and The Black Nile.

Movies: Jaws, The Killing Fields, Rabbit Proof Fence, The Motor Cycle Diaries, Casino Royale, Skyfall, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, The Hobbit Trilogy, Why We Fight, The Fog of War, Alien and Clerks.

TV: Nature, Frontline, Globe Trekker, River Monsters, The Big Bang Theory, Scrubs, Real Time, Vice, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Last Week Tonight and the Family Guy.

Music: Mozart, Beethoven, Pink Floyd, Rush, Joe Satriani, Eric Johnson, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Marty Friedman, Carlos Santana,
Metallica, Rage Against The Machine, Audioslave, Concrete Blonde, Robert Cray, Andres Segovia and many others.

Food: Fruits, vegetables, curry, laksa, dumplings, sea foods, noodles, popcorn, pretzels, berries, nuts and seeds.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Animals, mountains, forests, fruits, a Kindle Fire and a passport. I would have put my parents and sisters on the list but calling them just things didn't sound right.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
North Korea, Myanmar, Afghanistan, Palestine, Syria, the Congo, Somalia, Haiti, Native American reservations and anywhere that people really to day. The coming Asian century, terrorism, animals and endangered animals, sustainable development, habitat loss, water and where to take my next vacation abroad. And the three things that one should never talk about with Americans: race, religion and politics.

Just by having a penis and a job, I am a much better catch than most of the guys you run into online.

Women's magazines call tell women not to date athletes, actors, musicians, singers, rappers, military guys and police officers because they make bad boyfriends or husbands for the most part but women will chase them anyway.

How can someone make a movie about the war in Iraq and link Iraq to the attacks on 9/11 but then leave out the fact that Iraq did not actually attack the United States? And to focus on the suffering of one American deflects from the suffering of many others. Just as Vietnam war movies focused on the horrors of war suffered by American soldiers to deflect against the millions of Indochinese the US slaughtered. Entertainment used as a tool to make Americans forget the political choices they made and the results of those choices in Cambodia, Laos and Vietnam. Now to do the same with Iraq.

We are just an advanced breed of monkeys on a minor planet of a very average star.
-Stephen Hawking
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working. I often have to work the streets late into the evening and no...I'm not a hooker.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm shy. Deal with it.
You should message me if
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you want to...then sing your song.