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43 Brooklyn, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 39-49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 26
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Honest and straightforward and expect the same. Devoted to the ones I love. Goofy with the ones I love. You have to have my back and let me get yours. I prefer to clean over cooking. The one thing I have done right in this life are my friends. You should have some friends, too...the real ones.
I do not want to be your mother, I assume you already have one. But you should like her and the rest of your family....even though they are probably flawed just like mine.

I like people that are fun and creative but responsible for themselves and others. "Me ME ME" does not make sense in a world so full of others. Huge animal lover. I volunteer. I have ink on my skin that will not go away.
Travel? Yes please....Road trip? Yes please. I can sleep in a car but I also like real lazy vacations. If I had my way, I would live on the road part time and in a log cabin in Big Sur. Without a phone.
I prefer lakes over beaches but prefer beaches over concrete.
I like men that can build stuff and weld stuff and cook stuff....take my hand and make me feel like a beautiful woman....then pass me a beer as I kick your ass at darts. Well, I actually suck at darts.
But I will try my best to kick your ass at something.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Changing every day. A little searching, a lot of working. I used to do something that made me miserable but paid well. Then I did something that made me happy and didn't pay. Now I'm trying something new. Again.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Eyes, Height, ummm......hate these questions
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
easier to say what I am NOT into...self help books, predictable movies, country music, and chain restaurants.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, books, music, dogs. I don't need anything else.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
who knows....what is typical?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I keep it private
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm just going to list my deal breakers here...if you read and do not like, then we probably should not meet. We are all shopping online so may as well say what you want.

Over 39 years of age. Yeah yeah, I know..but YOU are different, mature, blah blah blah. Not interested in training someone. I've done it, ladies can thank me later.

Over 5'11"

Not an addict (this includes if your friends think you drink too much but you disagree. As you are drinking another Jack)

Financially responsible for yourself (mom and dad and auntie Marie do not give you money anymore)

You have phone manners (meaning you put it away, sometimes leave it behind, and eat your food rather than photograph it)

Not an interrupter. You know who you is chronic, you cut people off, you always jump in - I can't. I just can't.

You are open hearted, your relationship battle wounds from the past have healed, the world confuses you and charms you simultaneously, and you don't think the adventure has ended.