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35 M Asheville, NC

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Last Online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Working on university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
First off, let me clarify what I will not put up with, and some things that (if they pertain to you) should probably prompt you to move along.

1.) If you are unclear about the usage of the word prompt as a verb, or you just don't recognize the word, you should probably move on! Just not sure that I am comfortable dating below my vocabulary level.
2.) If you barely graduated high-school, and you still spend MOST of your weekends getting drunk and smoking dope with friends, we might not be a match.
3.) If you have absolutely no idea what you want in life, I'm not interested.
4.) If you are looking for someone to carry your baggage, and feel sorry for all of the woes that the world has foisted upon you, ... nope! (Also, if you don't understand the usage of foisted.)
5.) If you find your level of hapiness hopelessly controlled by your own neurotic ideas about what everyone thinks about you, ... go waste someone elses time.
6.) If your status (honestly) was married within the last 18 months, ... I don't want any part of that, and good luck.
7.) If previously married, and your ex is still a significant part of your life, I'm not sure that I'd be comfortable with that.
8.) If you think that there are just some things that should not be talked about, ... go back to the Middle Ages.
9.) If you think traditional classical Christian ideas about sex, marriage, and life are silly and/or don't apply to you then we should definately just be cordial with each other and not attempt to date. (Also, if your idea of "traditional classical Christianity" is modeled after what popular media chooses to portray, without your own research or critical thought, ... I would likely blow your mind! I wouldn't want that on my conscience.

If you made it past this list, then it is likely that there is some posibility for potential with us. Only one way to find out.

Ok, so let me put this out there! Some of the questions on here are just plain foolish and most of them are way too reductionist to honestly give any real picture of what a person actually thinks or believes. I would encourage you to not pay too much attention to many of the "cookie-cutter" answers which the system provides. And ask questions! Start a conversation! This place is not a shopping catalog, and people are not products! Take a chance, put some effort in and get to know someone and not just their "profile!"

If you are here for browsing, entertainment, friends with benefits, hooking up, or sex, then please move along! I don't play games, and I find this whole online dating thing a bit too transient for my taste. I am interested in real relationship, leading to friendship and eventually something greater!

I am a real Christian. I love people and seek to be a friendly, compassionate image bearer of God. I won't tolerate hatred, bigotry, racism, pride, or any form of willful false judgement. If you believe that your beliefs or actions place you above others, then you should probably not contact me.

I am an Engineering student. Although I don't have a large family, it is something that is very important to me. Being healthy is also important to me. I generally try to eat organic and am mostly vegetarian. I'll say that I'm a vegetarian that occasionally eats (some) meat, or what I like to call a "flexitarian", and I'm fine with whatever someone serves me as a guest. I don't drink with any appreciable regularity. I'm not "against" drinking, I just don't drink very often. I enjoy cooking and reading a lot, although I don't get the chance to do them for fun as much as I'd like.

I'm looking for someone who is confident, humble, sincere and generous. A real woman who is comfortable (most of the time) with who they are and wants a man to cherish and respect her as the God given gift that she is!
What I’m doing with my life
Junior at UNC Asheville, studying Mechatronics Engineering. (Think robots!) I sometimes work as a property manager and owners agent for a rental company. I also do some 3D and multimedia design work on the side.
I’m really good at
Being myself! ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
My direct nature, humility and openness! Oh wait ... bragging about my humility kind of nixes humility doesn't it? Dang it!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read all kinds of stuff, tend to gravitate towards philosophical stuff. I enjoy classics, sci-fi, theology, science/math, and history! I read pretty fast too!

Movies are tough for me to pin down! I like documentaries, horror, drama, sc-fi, and so much more!

I don't watch a ton of TV, but I do like a few shows a lot, including 30 Rock, Tosh.0, The Walking Dead, American Horror Story, Breaking Bad, Grimm, Under The Dome

Music is nearly impossible for me to nail down, so I'll just name a few of my faves. Needtobreath, Deftones, Neutral Milk Hotel, Mogwai, Norma Jean, Future of Forestry, Trans Am, Shostakovich, Sibelius, Patsy Cline, PJ Harvey, Fugazi, ... Trust me, there are sooooooo many more! I enjoy every genre except "hard-core Gangsta", pop, and (most) modern country. Spotify is my best friend!

Oh! And I love to go to the symphony!
The six things I could never do without
Food, air, water, family, friends, God
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How beautiful, and broken, the world is!

Why critical thought and real dialogue is so hard to come by!

The fears and prejudices that everyone carries, and how best to neutralize them!

What my life will look like in 5-10 years!
On a typical Friday night I am
Studying, reading, cooking, movie, etc
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll admit anything that is true!
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 25–33
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
My profile has piqued your interest, you desire real relationship, and you are not afraid to take a chance in getting to know someone, or at least meet for coffee!