Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a brave and kind man. I want to live deeply and fully into
myself and others. I'm an adventurer.
I grew up in Kaua'i and the Northwest.
I'm an introvert that really likes people.
I'm an active guy that likes to be doing things, though I'm also
good at not doing things and relaxing and okay with not always
I'm looking for a man that wants to be imaginative about the life
we create and have together. I want to be inspired by the person
I'm with. I like to be around people who have depth and care. I'm
attracted to people who are grateful, vulnerable, attentive, wise,
gentle, strong, have a voice, who want to live and love well.
I think I'm definitely more fun in real life than on page..
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am currently taking a break from graduate school where I'm
working on a Masters in Counseling Psychology. I work at a
non-profit circus school where I teach circus arts to kids (most of
whom have special needs) and adults. I'm on a volleyball league. I
spend a lot of time outdoors, running around everyday with the pup,
reading books, and playing. I'm open-minded, like trying new
things, and deeply believe in community.
I live in the woods of the Olympic Peninsula part of the week, and
in Seattle the other part of the week for work and seeing people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
creative projects, working with kids, acrobatics, listening,
relaxing, observing, climbing things, being intentional, being in
the moment, being playful.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think people probably notice that I'm a mover. I'm very active
and physical and quite comfortable in my own skin
If you were to see me dancing, (which happens all the the time in
my day to day life), you'd notice that I can shake what my momma
gave me, and pretty well, if I do say so myself. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love reading, particularly books on psychology and spirituality,
though I don't read too much for enjoyment at the moment because of
the amount I have to read for grad school. I like design and home
decor, and want to move toward the idea of being a maker/builder. I
make lighting fixtures as well as other home wares in my free
I tend to be picky about the movies I watch, as I'm not usually
interested in 2 hours of entertainment...I want to be moved. I want
to feel it was worth my time to sit down. I don't watch much TV
(hard to do when you don't have electricity), although I do like
it, especially Home and Garden television (okay...and RuPauls drag
race). I enjoy cooking and eating most foods (as long as it's
gluten-free). I'm also allergic to garlic, which is a big shame.
I love music, and have recently started to like going to shows
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my dog :)
plenty of sleep
time to play and be free
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Living well, and what that means for me.
Moving out into the woods.
How I would design a tiny house.
What comes up in therapy every week.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have one Friday night ritual...I light a candle and smoke my
tobacco pipe on my roof.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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sometimes I binge watch What Not To Wear...
You should message me if
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you know yourself well,
you want to grab a tea/coffee/drink,
you want to have an adventure,
you're genuinely in a place that your heart is open to love and be
you have something more to say in a message than "hey" or "how's it
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