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21 Oceanside, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 25, 2014
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 1" (1.55m)
Body Type
Judaism and laughing about it
High school
Wants kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a male who has had transgender experience and as for my sexuality (or lack there of), I identify as pansexual although I do have asexual tendencies and I tend to fall into the gray ace category more often than not. Despite that I am currently looking into finding a sense of belonging in the BDSM community. I am a horror, LGBT, and science fiction writer and a tattoo enthusiast as well as a lover of travelling and dining (although I am a horrid cook). I am hoping for a serious partner to have a relationship with. I want someone who I can build a life with and who shares my similar hopes and aspirations for life. I am also really sarcastic. Just a heads up.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work at Panera Bread full-time. I am also an aspiring writer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I think I am a fair writer. I have published a few poems alongside other poets and I have a collection of unpublished short stories.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height or my sarcasm - ideally my facial hair, but I think those two reign supreme.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite book series is the Wicked Years by Gregory Maguire although I am always trying to find a good book to read. I also love the Harry Potter series although I'm sure that is fairly common. I also enjoy Fullmetal Alchemist, Neon Genesis Evangelion, Tokyo Ghoul and other manga.

For movies, I watch anything although I do love movies in the horror genre. I would have to recommend American Mary for anyone who has not seen it. Anything involving Hannibal Lector is also great. Other good films are Dead Hooker in a Trunk, Grimm Love, Female Trouble, Martyrs, Natural Born Killers, Pink Flamingos, and The Rocky Horror Picture Show. I also take suggestions from anyone.

For shows, I tend to lean towards American Dad, Big Bang Theory, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Desperate Housewives, Friends, although I do watch a collection of other shows. I am also into anime, my favorite being Fullmetal Alchemist. I have also watched Death Note, Eureka Seven, Eureka Seven: Ao, Kill la Kill, Madoka Magi, Neon Genesis Evangelion, and Tokyo Ghoul. I am currently watching Ghost in the Shell.

My music tastes varies from pop to punk to rock and to showtunes. I am open to almost anything. My favorite bands are Animal Collective, Blink 182, The Cab, The Click Five, Cute is What We Aim For, Dispatch, Family of the Year, The Fray, Green Day, My Chemical Romance, The Offspring, Panic! at the Disco, Paramore, The Police, Rascal Flatts, Shinedown, Simple Plan, Sublime, and Timber Timbre.

As for food? The more the merrier.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually out with friends. I socially drink and I usually can be found doing something less than intelligent. If I'm not doing that I'm reading or marathoning some television program.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ask me and I'll tell you.
You should message me if
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Message me if you saw anything above that seemed particularly interesting to you. I am looking for new friends so I am eager to talk to anyone.