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u_nq_me

45 / F / gay / Single

Chicago, Illinois

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
—
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Rather Not Say
Income
Rather not say
Kids
—
Pets
—
Languages
English (Fluently)

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My Self-Summary

I'm someone who has a variety of interests but is willing to try something new. I can converse on a number of topics. I'm a good listener.

Want to meet up for coffee or something low key? Drop a note.

What I’m doing with my life

I just started a new job, so I'm getting up to speed on that.

Otherwise, I'm looking for other ways to expand my life. I've got a lot of interests now that keep me busy, but there's always more that could be done.

I’m really good at

I'm really good at trivia. This is a skill that pays little, but it has gotten free drinks for me at bars.

I'm also good at being considerate of other people. I'm not a doormat, but I'm pretty laid back...until I'm not.

The first things people usually notice about me

People generally don't notice me, I don't think. They notice my friends. But that's okay, as it lets me observe, and enter into events at a time of my own choosing.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

books - lately I've been reading English history (Tudor chicks are my fave), and some current events. I've been reading a lot of online news, blogs, etc., related to the election since I'm a political junkie.

movies - I'm up for anything, with a preference towards indies, art films, and documentaries that don't get wide release. I'm not overly fond of torture porn but I won't refuse to see movies. I also like older films like musicals and screwball comedies.

music - lately I tend to listen to classical on the radio while I work. Sometimes, classic and alternative rock. I'm also a fan of some celtic, esp. up-tempo stuff.

food - you name it. Thai is a definite favorite, as is sushi. But I'm willing to try most anything, except I don't eat meat and I try to minimize dairy. I love diners, esp. brunch or late night before heading home.

The six things I could never do without

Can't do without:
- paper
- writing implement
- a backpack, in case I find a 7th thing or have to carry someone else's things
- coffee
- pie
- knitting needles and yarn

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I spend a lot of time thinking about stuff.

On a typical Friday night I am

Generally sitting at home writing or knitting, but sometimes hanging out with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I think I'll hold off on this one for when I meet a woman, face to face.

You should message me if

You want to start a conversation. I can string words together in generally coherent sentences. Drop a note...ya never know.

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