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23 M Berkeley, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 19–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 19
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
TL,DR: Geeky but well-spoken guy seeks intelligent, yet affectionate girl for escapades, conversation, and shenanigans.

Many people on OKC seem to describe themselves as explorers or adventurers. While I do love to travel (I've been to 16 countries so far, mostly Europe), what I truly enjoy exploring are ideas. I love envisioning new technologies; I love debating philosophies and politics; I love art and games that force me to take a new perspective on things. If you are someone who likes to think and read without being coerced to do so, I'm sure we'll find something to talk about. : )

Also, I'm an extroverted INTJ. Yes, I know what the "I" stands for; I just mean that while I need time on my own to recharge, I do my best to be gregarious in social situations. Life's too short to be timid.
What I’m doing with my life
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Job-wise, I'm a User Experience Designer for a kickass tech consultancy in Point Richmond. (For the uninitiated: if you think of programmers as plumbers/electricians/contractors... I'd be the architect.) Pretty happy there and not looking to leave any time soon, though I'm keeping a keen eye open for UX work in educational areas - I'm a big fan of Khan Academy and its ilk.

I'm also lead designer on a small startup, which is moving slowly but steadily. That, the day job, and various chores and nerdy activities tend to round out my schedule nicely.

Oh yeah, and chilling with my cat Schrödinger.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Understanding things from someone else's point of view. Acting rationally. Fixing relatives' computers. Oh yeah, and my specialty is getting distracted, I'm really good at that.

I used to be quite good at jazz bass - I played at the Hollywood Bowl once. (Oh yeah, I'm from Hollywood. Yes, my parents work in the movie business. No, I haven't met any movie stars.) I let it go a bit during college - turns out getting a Mechanical Engineering degree from Berkeley doesn't leave you with a lot of spare time for practice. Trying to get the music back in my fingers now, though.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height and my cheerful demeanor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books that draw me in:
Game of Thrones - DAMN YOU, Martin, stop killing all my favorite characters!
Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman
Asimov's short stories, Foundation novels, Ender series, Harry Potter series (including HPMOR, His Dark Materials, Lord of the Rings, Neuromancer, Accelerando

Movies with style:
1. V for Vendetta
2. Moulin Rouge
5. Monty Python and the Holy Grail
also almost anything by Quentin Tarantino or Hayao Miyazaki.

Shows that entertain:
Doctor Who, Sherlock, Big Bang Theory, How I Met Your Mother, Dr. Horrible's Sing Along Blog, Adventure Time, Star Trek, The Next Generation, Avatar, the Last Airbender, Cowboy Bebop, Death Note, Cosmos

Music with intriguing melodies:
The Beatles, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Modest Mouse, KT Tunstall, Queen, Cage the Elephant, Mumford and Sons, OK Go

Artists that make my mind bend over backwards to understand them:

Games that test your logic and politicking:
Settlers of Catan, Chess, Seven Wonders, Magic: The Gathering, Super Smash Bros. Brawl, Portal, Braid, Bioshock Infinite

Food that's delicious:
Guinness, sushi, lasagna, garlic, bacon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A well-stocked kitchen.
Funny hats.
Something to think about.
Board/video games.
Relaxing with mary jane after a long day.
Someone to talk to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether we're going to blow ourselves up or start interstellar colonization first. What I'm going to say next. Why we can't have nice things.

In terms of philosophies, I'm transhumanist, feminist, liberal, atheist, socialist, utilitarianist, secular humanist, and naturalist. Fundamentally, though, I'm an engineer and a pragmatist at heart; I think it's pointless to insist about what should be, when we need to be talking about what could be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing poker, seeing a movie, or going to the Albatross (the best pub in Berkeley) with my buddies.

I'm up for adventure, but I'm not a fan of clubbing, or other venues where I can't hear myself think.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I play Dungeons and Dragons regularly. What can I say? Being a wizard is fun.
You should message me if
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you can have fun like a fool and speak like a scholar.