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23 • Seattle, WA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–25
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 10
- 5′ 2″ (1.57m)
- Body type
- Other, but not too serious about it
- Libra, and it’s fun to think about
- Working on university
- Less than $20,000
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
Also, it should be noted that I am currently in northern RI for school, but after graduation in May I plan on moving back to south central CT if all goes according to plan. I can do long distance up to a point, and of course new friends are always cool :)
Now, the longer, and far more interesting version:
Geeky/a fangirl gamer, sensitive, intelligent, loyal, generous/giving, philosophical, shy, a furry (non-suiter) and awkward.
What I am looking for: anyone- boy, girl, or in between, for something serious and committed, if there's a connection. ***NOTE*** When it comes to guys and TGs, I really only prefer slim and effeminate types, FOR PARTNERS. I'll be friends with just about anyone, but I don't want to raise someone's hopes prematurely. My ideal partner is just as geeky as me, and as intelligent, but not necessarily interested in the exact same things. (By intelligent I don't mean someone who is book smart necessarily, though that is awesome if you are. More like someone who can think reasonably and arrive at conclusions after giving the subject some thought, etc.)
Also, allow me to make a statement: someone who dresses in a Star Wars shirt and wears glasses does not constitute a geek. A true geek, the kind I'm looking for, is someone who plays games and goes to cons and watches Dr. Who like it's no big deal, because it isn't. It's just what they do for fun.
I'm not looking for flings or FWB. Friends, and/or people interested in serious relationships only, please :)
About my personality:
For those that care, according to the Kiersey test, I'm an INFJ, but I also heavily display some ISFJ traits. I do like things to be planned ahead of time, but some spontaneity mixed in is good too, and ideally I'd like a partner who can help me be a little more spontaneous. I don't make friends easily, and can be very quiet and shy when first meeting someone, but as time goes on and the relationship grows I'll open up-if there's chemistry I can open up EXTREMELY quickly; but the friends I do make are tried and true and those bonds run deep.
I'm a hopeless romantic, and extremely devoted to my lover- I will put their happiness before my own, because seeing them happy is what makes me happy. I am dependable almost to a fault-whether its lending an ear or a helping hand or showing up on time, I'm there, and will be until you've shown me you no longer deserve me in that capacity.
I also LOVE to learn about things that catch my interest-usually something that's science or history related. I'm a wealth of useless facts; I used to be on what was called Knerd Bowl (yes, spelling intentional) in school-basically an inter-school trivia competition. I also love being in nature, and love to go on hikes and walks in the woods. (I miss my hometown :() As you've probably figured out, I'm a much more intellect/mind oriented person rather than physical, but I like being that way.
Video games (mainly adventure, FPS, flight sim, and RPG...though I'm rediscovering a love for horizontal shmups)
Renaissance faire(s) (don't talk about King Richards. Ugh)
Military history, tactics and tech (mainly WWII, Civil War, and modern)
Sci fi and fantasy in general
Model rockets and planes
Webcomics and memes
Starting to get interested in cosplay
Fandoms- Star Wars, LOTR, MLP: FIM, Pokemon, Elder Scrolls, Mass Effect, FMA (original and Brotherhood), Dr. Who/Torchwood, Hitchhikers Guide, Sword of Truth
Also a pretty decent marksman with a variety of ranged weapons.
Also, I am pocket sized.
Movies: Star Wars, Pirates of the Caribbean, Lord of the Rings, V for Vendetta, 007 (the classic ones), Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Mary and Max...there's more I'm sure but I'm having a brain fade right now...
TV: Fullmetal Alchemist/Brotherhood, Family Guy, South Park, Sons of Guns, Mythbusters, astronomy documentaries, NCIS, Criminal Minds, Futurama, Venture Bros., Dr. Who, Torchwood, Bob's Burgers, Weeds, That 70's Show, Samurai Champloo, Deathnote, Soul Eater, Archer, MLP: FIM
Music: Lindsey Stirling, Disturbed, Hot Chelle Rae, Cartel, Linkin Park, Three Days Grace, Gaelic Storm, Secondhand Serenade, Ludo
Food: My diet has become kind of restricted in the last 2 years due to gastroparesis, aka 'lazy stomach'.
4. Learning new things
3. My best friend(s)
Why people act the way they do, which is usually like jackasses. Boggles my mind...
...really though, look for the TARDIS, I'll be nearby.
I have a crush on Dr. Reid from Criminal Minds.
I'm an open book, ask me anything. I dare you. I think you'll like what you find. :)
****ALSO**** Please, if you are going to message me, for the love of the great flying spaghetti noodle monster, say something more than 'hey'. Really, guys? >.< ****ADDENDUM*** A tip-if you're going to message any woman, not just me, don't be stupid and insult her, then try to ingratiate yourself with her. It doesn't work. Chauvinists, I'm talking to YOU.
DEFINITELY message me if http://xkcd.com/219/ sounds like fun
Also, major points if any or all of the following applies:
You can teach me about something new
You have ink/piercings/crazy hair
You can/want to sing along to RENT with me
You have intense/unique/almond shaped eyes/smile
You've been/want to go to a renaissance faire/comic/sci-fi convention
You answered 'complex' on that question about preferring simple people or complex
You have a warped sense of humor
I want someone to challenge me. Not disagree, necessarily, but I want my thoughts provoked.
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