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ubfempositive

29 F San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 14
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
fat, queer, femme, faith, working class, vegetarian….important building blocks to the lady you find before you.

i’m looking for: laughter that carries on into the night. a hand to hold. sweetness, given and received. saturday morning tofu scramble eaten among just sexed sheets. easy conversation that is honest, complex and vulnerable. silly adventures. somebody who does ‘work’ they are passionate about and appreciates that i do the same. just thinking of you gifts and knowing glances.

p.s. i'm really turned on by accountability
What I’m doing with my life
striving to support sassy safe communities (feel free to ask me what that means), growing, writing, laughing, opening up possibilities, doing burlesque along side other Glitter Babes
I’m really good at
giving hugs. supporting people i care about. creating a welcoming space. making lists. personalizing the political. searching for silly. trying things that scare me. making delicious vegan things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: s/he by Minnie Bruce Pratt, The Beautifully Worthless by Ali Libegott, The Irresistible Revolution by Shane Claiborne, Two or Three Things I Know For Sure by Dorothy Allison, Without a Net: the Female Experience of Growing Up Working Class, and many more.

movies: Fried Green Tomatoes, Steel Magnolias, X-Men I and II but not III, French Kiss, Two Weeks Notice, A League of Their Own, Musicals

tv: Roseanne and Friday Night Lights.

music: Gossip, The Judds, Ani Difranco, Ozzy Osbourne,

food: vegan comfort food, my grandmothers baking, greens (!)
The six things I could never do without
laughter, honest conversations, intimacy, journals, self reflection, friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
community accountability, how to live my values, what being a queer femme actually means, how faith intersects with radicalism, what my next step should be, how to make life more joyful
On a typical Friday night I am
at some sort of fun-draiser with friends, sharing a meal, or at home decompressing after a long work week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i'm open to casually dating but in the big picture i'm monogamous.....yes, you read that correctly.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you aren't a creeper, you like to laugh, you have some tools of self reflection, you value the simple things, you care about the world around you