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ugarcia07

31 Pompano Beach, FL Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 24
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Jacked
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I am just a simple southern man who lives by a certain code of honor and respect. Many people do not stand for much these days, but my top priorities are education, good health, family, and self-purpose. I am usually seen as a supposed "loner". All I ever wanted was love. Real and True love. I am tired of going through life's journey alone. I wish I had a lady that was willing to take that journey with me. Looks isn't half as important as being on the same page mentally and spiritually. That's what I pray for most. I crave a woman with a conscious mind. I am turned on by a woman who isn't a dullard like 99% of the sheep in society.
I am a strong protagonist of common sense, realism, and equality. With that being said, I am not a simp. I'm not one of those guys that can be controlled by sex, regardless of how fine you are (unlike most men). If a woman wants to be wined, and dined, she has to earn that. One is not welcome to my wallet, yet the American culture of dating would have a woman believe that she is. I work very hard for every dime I get. For me to spend some of that money on you, is a very nice gesture in my opinion, and should not be considered as an entitlement. I believe if a woman wants to be treated as an equal, she should act like it. I'm also not one of those conceited pretty boys, predisposed with himself. I'm an old school type of fella. I don't wear skinny jeans, speak ebonics, or have a diva complex, like the modern man does. I don't have any baggage at all. No kids yet (thank God), No baby mamas, got my own place, and vehicle. I am a firm believer in taking things slow, and being cool first. You won't find me the type to be overhyped trying to get some, like the rest of these dudes. I prefer developing a rapport with an individual, before any of that. Other than that, I am all about forward progress. I am not a baller, and I don't pretend to be; but I am a hard worker. I am not a player, but I am also not a sucker. Most of all, I believe that a great friendship is key to any great relationship of any kind. Everyday I live is dedicated to making myself mentally, physically, or spiritually improved.I aint a gangster, thug, pimp, or anything of that nature. Then again, I aint a punk either, and I will fight for what I believe in.I am misunderstood because I am the preverbial "big black man, who doesn't smile much", but I assure you that there is much more to me than expected.
What I’m doing with my life
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Just came from doing 8 years as a combat medic in the military. I am now a civilian and i work as a medic for the VA. I know that job title doesn't sound all shiny and fancy like a Lawyer or a doctor, but I like it. Most guys pick certain careers because it will simply attract women. Not me. I picked the career I have because "I" enjoy it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping others, developing a logical philosophy on reality, and knocking conceited people off of their pedestal.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well......... from the consensus of what I gathered, I don't get complimented much, but when I do.....girls usually say something about my arms, my traps, or oddly how they like my ass (which I never understood; I mean......why would a girl like a man's ass anyway? lol).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Books: Pedagogy of the oppressed, and The Art of War.

Favorite Movies: Silence of The Lambs, Cast Away, Skyfall, The Avengers, Tombstone, etc......

Favorite Shows: True Blood, Breaking Bad, and Monday Night Raw
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, exercise, lotion, walmart, freedom of speech and my truck. lol.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Am I fulfilling my purpose on this Earth? / Why the human species is so hell bent on caste systems and ruling over each other instead of showing love to one another? / Why does God allow the righteous to suffer and the evil to prosper here on Earth (if there is a God)?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home watching movies or studying.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I cried during that scene in "Cast Away" when Wilson (the volleyball) floated off into the ocean. And I'm often referred to by those who know me as "A big teddy bear". Though for some odd reason, most people who don't know me are scared of me when I approach them.
You should message me if
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you're tired of men who try to be players. If you want a man who knows what he wants and is not jerking you around. If you want a man who is searching for real commitment and synergy with a partner. If you want a man who believes great friendship is a key component in maintaining a successful relationship.