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26 M Santa Fe, NM

My Details

Last Online
Apr 12
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm kind of shallow, but I'd rather be honest about that than be a puddle pretending to be an ocean. I'm classically educated, well traveled, cursorily versed in many subjects, strong willed, progressive, accepting, and uncertain about most things.

I don't like horror movies. Unless Whedon is involved.
I've never traveled abroad alone for a significant amount of time.
I think ditching everything and sailing away would actually be pretty cool for a while.
What I’m doing with my life
So, I didn't get into medical school and I'm actually pretty OK with it. I don't know if my motivations were what was necessary or if I'm even capable of having that sort of burning passion they want after I've immersed myself in the statistics and changing landscape of the field.

But that means I have some time to really work on myself and that's what I'm doing. I'm exploring the things I want to explore. I'm climbing and dancing and reading and thinking. I am proactively sucking at bass guitar. I made a recurve bow out of PVC and learning how to shoot in the Eastern school. I think I'm figuring out who I am and discovering how difficult that really is.
I’m really good at
being hyper critical of myself! *finger guns*

Being kinda good at a lot of things. I'm trained as a fine wood worker. I'm a pretty good pie maker and cook. I am an OK dancer in the realm of dancers who have been dancing for a long time.
The first things people usually notice about me

I'm kind of like a cat, it takes a little time, but I warm up fairly quickly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read science fiction and fantasy as brain candy. My favorites right now are: The Magicians, The Magician King, Speaker for the Dead, Thud, The Long Earth, the His Dark Materials trilogy, Dune, the Tiffany Aching series

The movies I like tend to be the ones that I end up thinking about for a while afterwards, whether it's via their social commentary or because I want to run around making light saber noises. Star Wars OT, Looper, The Marvel CU, Frozen, Tangled, Harold and Kumar, The Fifth Element, Pacific Rim

I like TV that is somewhere between light syrup and treacle. I like to be entertained, but not too stressed out. Community, Modern Family, Psych, Castle, Game of Thrones, Luther, Sherlock, New Girl, Brooklyn 99, Kill la Kill, Gurren Lagann, Silver Spoon, Cowboy Bebop, FMA: Brotherhood

I like EDM (mostly DnB, dubstep, and trip hop), punk with the midwestern sensibility, ska (doobidee doo), alternative pop, lyrical and/or ridiculous metal, hip hop like J5 and sometimes a full orchestra just playing a song about how a girl from Bahia Blanca just left you and now you're all sad and stuff.

My palate is down for pretty much anything except for raw durian and rotting flesh. Though few things beat menudo or great tacos in my opinion.
The six things I could never do without
Great friends
Good conversation
Artistic endeavors
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, the universe and everything.

Mental states, global warming, social justice, tango, blues, bass, climbing, archery, ballet, economics, logical fallacies, education, lot's of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually hanging out with a buddy and having a beer then going social dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Before I do something I'm nervous about I recite the Litany Against Fear.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You think checking out attractive people and talking about it is fun. Or you like talking about difficult subject matter and sussing out why it's difficult and are satisfied even if there isn't an answer to be had.