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uhohletsgo

43 / M / Straight / Single

Rego Park, New York

His Details

Last Online
Jun 18
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
"Stay around don't play around
This old town and all
Seems like I got to travel on"
The Clash

I am a well traveled lifelong New Yorker.
My friends say I am kind hearted, well respected and somewhat amazing in a multitude of ways. Some say I am a mean, surly drunk. The truth lies somewhere in between. I like to think I am well rounded realist with varied interests and that I can see and hear both sides of an argument. I make an effort to treat people as I like to be treated. That is with kindness, compassion and respect.
I listen and don't just wait to speak.

I like pens and paper, cameras and tools. Cranes and bridges fascinate me. How and why are the two most common questions I ask because I really want to know.

I sometimes sit on my terrace and count the planes in the sky.

The trend of de-saturating photos is something I am not into. I would much rather see a vibrant, saturated exposure than a washed out overly processed picture. End of photo rant.
What I’m doing with my life
Interesting things.
To me at least.
I’m really good at
Remembering to kick it over.
Keeping it together in stressful situations.
Being the rational, logical one. I am good with my hands and enjoy using them to build and create things. I love tools.
I make a good lentil soup.
I'm good at some other stuff as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am not who they think I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read, watch movies and tv, listen to music, see bands play live and eat regularly. I also visit museums and galleries, take pictures and enjoy design and architecture in all of its many forms.

Sonic Youth, EPMD, Mark Lanegan, Roxy Music, Craig Mack, TED, Grant Green, Dondi, Breaking Bad, Gustav Stickley, William Gibson, WNYC, NYTimes, Marina Abramovic, Terry Gilliam, The Jesus Lizard, The Replacements, Richard Serra, David Fincher

I am currently fond of Bulleit Bourbon and I seldom pass the chance to eat good BBQ or watch Cocktail.

There is of course a long list of artists whose work I enjoy.
I would be glad to share it with you if you are interested.
The six things I could never do without
Tape.
It holds shit together.

What good is everything else if you can't keep it together.

I am fond of a few things:
-Cameras
-Leatherman Skeletool
-Flashlight
-iPad
-Passport
-Bourbon
-A signed photo from Steve Thomas encouraging me to finish my bathroom.

I won't state the obvious.

A healthy dose of sarcasm never hurt things either.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about being a spacecraft 10 billion miles from earth.
How amazing it is that we can send a rover to mars and a man to the moon and back.
And dogs. I spend a lot of time thinking about dogs.
The house I am going to build and live in.

I also think about being a pirate.
But not the Somali or Johnny Depp type of pirate.

Has anyone done EST or The Forum and wants to talk about it.

I think about it all.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably not even aware that it is Friday.

If I am not out working I enjoy the comforts of home.
Family, friends, TV, movies, books, music and my couch.

Or I could simply be sitting on my terrace watching the cars go by.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I won't admit anything other than I dislike Ben Stiller.
And I think pictures of people posing next to art are stupid.
And I am not very fond of Will Smith.

Sue me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–48
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You have been places and done things, and want to swap tales.

You don't throw gang signs unless you are in a gang.

You don't yoga pose in your pics.

You do have something say.

You are kind.

You get it.

You know that you can go it alone but realize that it is all the more enjoyable if you go with someone.