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42 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 2, 2014
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Danish (Poorly), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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- In 2006, I came to NYC from London for 6 months and never left!
- My ideal Spring day in the city would start with a cycle around Central Park; good conversation over a cheese plate at Celeste (UWS) and end in BK with Quest-love Djing,
- NOLA is my favorite city. Audiophile. I frequent jazz fest annually
- I adopted the Mets, Giants and Rangers but root for West Ham back home.
- I coached Soccer at a middle school, and play regularly on Sundays
- I now volunteer at local school farm growing vegetables sure beats looking at the damn computer screen
- I work for an investment bank but Im not an investment banker.
Ive scuba'd in Columbia, Kenya, The Maldives, Thailand and Egypt to name a few locations.
- Ive just finished reading to 'kill a mockingbird' (NO judgement -- It wasn't mandatory reading in English Schools) but typically prefer non-fiction...just begun reading Pollan's 'Cooked' after finishing 'Born to Run'
- Current Music: XX, Darkside, Michael Kiwanuka & Radio 1s Anny Mac's Hot Water Bottle Sessions (follow it on Spotify)
- The insanity workout program me is kicking my arse but I love it.
- I once got run over by a horse at a bull run in Nicaragua
- I DJed for 2 summers in greece....(many moons ago)
- I hate Vegas but go once a year
- Best 2013 Films: American Hustle and Blue Jasmine (for the acting), Gravity (for the visual spectacle), 12 Years a Slave... and need to see new Cohen Bros one. All time have - Star Wars 4 (obvious but oh so true) 28 days later, Layer Cake)
- I backpacked around Central and South America from Guatemala all the way down to Antarctica.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I make a bad-ass quinoa and black-bean salad topped with Salmon and know how to shop for Avocados.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My British Accent....(too easy)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Difficult to determine....let me get back to you
Music: Massive Attack, Thievery Corporation, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin
Shows: Sleep No more, Thy mystery of Edwin Drood, Lion King
Food: Yes Please... (usually healthy to allow for the occasional mass indulgences)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My passport
Hiking, Biking, Soccer (I count Outdoor activities as one)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking to do something less typical
You should message me if
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you have a good technique...oh wait -- I thought it said 'massage'....

All joking aside -- Genuinely looking for a soul mate, lover, best friend to share life's roller-coaster rides with (actually and metaphorically). Not looking for a random hookup.

Preferably a fairly liberal-minded, optimistic, realist (call me goldilocks). Mostly sane with a slither of crazy and the spirit of adventure. A good sense of humor sounds so cliched but so important... (I draw the line at circus clowns)

If this sounds like you...and you 'get it' .....then mail me

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