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48 M London, UK

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 11
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hello, and thank you for clicking on me!

I'm smart, funny, loyal, I care a lot about my friends, I don't have any financial problems, and I don't play mind games.

One of my passions is travelling and exploring new places. I've been all over the world. I'd like to get away more often, for long weekends in Europe, and longer trips further afield - it would be much nicer to have someone to do that with! I aim to take a few months to go around the world sometime soon.

My sense of humour is observational, and occasionally sarcastic, but please don't ask me to tell you a joke, because I don't know any good ones - I think that there's enough to laugh at in real life.

Likes: chocolate, live music (mostly indie/US acts), cinema (mainstream & art house), London, good food, people watching, fast cars, the seaside, thunderstorms,geocaching, late night conversations.

Dislikes: Superficial people, curry, slow drivers, poor personal hygiene, voicemail.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm happy with my life, and I've been lucky to have had interesting jobs, with good employers - yet I feel incomplete, and I yearn to find someone special - best friend, co-conspirator, and partner.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. I'm also a logical thinker - I can take in a large amount of information, quickly separate out what is important, and work out what questions need to be answered to progress towards a solution (although I acknowledge that a solution is not always what's wanted!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a quiet person, but I'm not shy. I don't talk just for talking's sake - but when I have something to say, you may have trouble getting me to stop!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am a fan of science fiction/fantasy books and sci-fi movies, but I also enjoy geeking out with factual books, and watching documentaries. I think that Douglas Adams was a genius!
TV shows that I love include Big Bang Theory, Falling Skies, Horizon, Futurama.
My music taste covers an eclectic mix of rock, pop and modern folk.
I love Italian food (not only pizza and pasta!) and good, traditional British food. I enjoy good food from most parts of the world, but I am not a big fan of hot/spicy food, or shellfish, and the brussels sprout is evil!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The universe is expanding, but what is it expanding into?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes out with friends, but mostly at home, and quite content to be so.
You should message me if
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You have an optimistic outlook on life, but you are also a bit of a realist. You are younger than me, shorter than me, and a non-smoker. You have a nice smile. You enjoy travel and exploring new places, and you would like to be able to do more of that.

I value honesty, independence, and curiosity. Trust is very important to me, and it should be to you too.

My location says "London", because I realized that almost everyone on here is in "London" - in fact I live near Windsor, which effectively makes me invisible to most people, even though I'm only 45 minutes away! I hope that my non-London residence isn't a problem. I love coming into London, but it's a bit nicer to live out here!

Cake or Death?