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ukantcme87

36 / M / Straight / Seeing someone

Asheville, North Carolina

His Details

Last Online
May 8
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on med school
Job
Student
Income
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I wake up every morning and count my blessings in this life, I stand in front of the mirror, getting out of my favorite PJ's and think about all of those people and interactions that I have had that have brought me to this moment in time. I stand in gratitude for all of my obstacles and decisions. I would not be who I am if it was not for them. With each foot forward into the day, I move about in my mind that which I am slowly beginning to manifest. As the days, weeks progress I realize that the power of thought is ever present and always busy.

My smile is contagious, my heart is often overflowing, I cry when I watch sad movies, and cuss when I get hurt. I cook for pleasure, and take delight in watching the faces of those who have been gracious enough to sample my food. I live to create, through art, food, and wood. I strive daily to be a better person every day. I gladly admit my faults, there are many. I am sarcastic (very), kinda cocky, impatient at times, I live in my head, I question everything, my faith in everything is always tested, I often dream of packing up and starting over, I argue, I love deeply and have embraced this body for all of its wonderful flaws.

My life thus far has been an adventure, one that I could have never imagined. I have done and been places that will always have a piece of my heart.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently in my third year of Oriental Medical School here in Asheville, this, and the co-parenting of my son predominates my life at the moment. I cannot complain though. This has been the most trans-formative program I could have ever undertaken. To say that it is nothing less than life changing would be an understatement.

I am focusing on myself, through meditation and Qi Gong, with a better understanding of all of life's little, and big changes that we must all go through and learn from. I have been humbled in this life thus far and will continue to see the world through that of a student.
I’m really good at
Listening, talking, dancing, making people laugh at the lunacy of life, karaoke, pencil and ink drawings, thinking, studying (because I have too), playing like a three year old (also because I have too)
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes

My smile

The one grey hair on the top of my head
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Shows - yes I am a geek....Stargate SG-1, Stargate Atlantis, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, The Office, Ancient Aliens, NOVA, Game of Thrones

Movies - Just about anything really, I love a good movie and homemade popcorn.

Books - Ender's Game, anything by Stephen King, yes I am reading the Hunger Games, and of course anything related to Oriental Medicine, The Celestine Prophecy
The six things I could never do without
Love
My son
Sunlight
Passion
Intimacy
Spirituality
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why I have been told countless times that I am intimidating, I don't get it?? (Well actually I think that I have figured it out)
How did superman get his hair cut?
Listening to the side effects of drug commercials.
Why do short haired dogs shed so much?
Why are ice cream trucks so scary?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to be a used car salesman...be warned....
Oh and I can probably out cook you :)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You are the 1 out of too many ladies that look at this profile and realize that I am for real, and.....you are not intimidated by a confident, sexy, smart, old school romantic, genuine, sarcastic, Italian bad ass sort of guy.