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42 Boston, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 33–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 22
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I am apparently a list of dichotomies. I'm intellectual but not at all studious. I get along well with most people but mostly spend time with a small group of old friends. I'm not very outgoing by myself but like friends that are because I like to be drawn out both actively and socially.

I love the outdoors. I have done some very small scale backpacking and rock climbing in the past. These days i mostly enjoy short day hikes. I still want to try camping by kayak or any sort of boat really.

I spent 3 years living in Japan and teaching kindergarten at an International School in Tokyo. While there I had the opportunity to travel in Japan and other parts of Asia and Europe. I sadly travel less these days but managed a trip to Prague in '09 and to Italy in '12. When traveling I'm most interested in the history, culture and architecture. I'm somewhat of a minimalist and not much of a shopper. I don't keep up with fashion or sports. I do like to read and can lose myself in a novel until I've finished it to the expense of food and sleep. I enjoy spending time with friends whether we're going out, sharing a meal or just hanging out together.
What I’m doing with my life
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Made a small career improvement in my depressing office job last year and its leading to improvements in the rest of my life as well. Contemplating some schooling to take me in a more interesting direction.
When I can I join friends for small adventures exploring new towns, looking for lighthouses or waterfalls, hiking etc.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing others' points of view
Earning the trust of children
Earning trust in general
Being reliable
Joining adventures
Learning basic dance moves
Using a map
Using the library
Finding ways to waste time on-line.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I freely admit to being pop-culture illiterate. On that note I really loved The movies: Antonia's Line, Totoro, Bride and Prejudice, Ocean's 11, Juno.
The books: A lot of children's lit, I've gotten into romance with a mystery/fantasy twist. It's the twist that makes it interesting. Some fantasy and and a bit of sci-fi, some biography/biographical fiction. I like reading about the relationships that form between characters and as such favor series where I can follow the character development. I'm trying to get away from the fan-fiction habit as I waste too much of my time that way.
Music: My taste is pretty eclectic including folk, old style rag-time/jazz and most varieties of rock. I'm pretty easy going outside those areas as well.
Shows: yes, I like them but don't get to see many.
Food: Mexican, Indian, Japanese, Italian, Greek/mediteranian, Thai. Not a big fan of Chinese
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Warmth, the physical as well as the social variety
Obligations/expectations. They form a bit of much needed structure in my life though I admit I'm quite choosey about whose expectations I bother with.
I love the outdoors and like getting out to enjoy it with others.
My niece and nephew, who are great at joining in low key adventures.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Places I'd like to go or see.
Things I'd like to learn to do, get better at...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having friends over for dinner and a movie, or...
Out with friends for dinner and drinks or...
Reading a book by myself in the bath...

Mostly just emensly happy to finally have Fridays off again.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When other women complain to me about the incompetence of their husbands I often suffer a sinking sensation that they could easily be describing me. At least, that is, when I don't agree with them completely.
You should message me if
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You are hoping for the love of your life and are happy to meet fun and interesting people along the way.